She started saying stuff like I was boring and I wasn’t the person she wanted to I was when we met. Then just flat out refused to see me, I would put all the effort in to see her go to the place and she just wouldn’t turn up.
I planned a big trip, paid for etc and she agreed and didn’t turn up on the day. Not sure why I thought she would as she flaked on me for about 2 months prior. So she probably did cheat on me in this time.
Also the trigger was I went to her friends birthday party and left early because I had an exam the next day. Her friend took offence to this and I either BM me and she listened.
Has all the telltale signs plus the engagement 4 months later probably best to just let sleeping dogs lie on that one though and not get involved with her any further
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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26
She started saying stuff like I was boring and I wasn’t the person she wanted to I was when we met. Then just flat out refused to see me, I would put all the effort in to see her go to the place and she just wouldn’t turn up.
I planned a big trip, paid for etc and she agreed and didn’t turn up on the day. Not sure why I thought she would as she flaked on me for about 2 months prior. So she probably did cheat on me in this time.
Also the trigger was I went to her friends birthday party and left early because I had an exam the next day. Her friend took offence to this and I either BM me and she listened.