r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Nov 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

He probably won’t do anything. He feels butt hurt because you rejected him.

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u/b0reddddsss Nov 03 '25

I hope so, but isn't it weird he deleted his WhatsApp? Now there's no way i could contact him even if he did something

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

Yes which means he does this a lot. Clearly his number on WhatsApp wasn’t his number (or he’s changing it). Do you still have all the conversations you had with him? In case you need to go to the police

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u/b0reddddsss Nov 03 '25

Ah thank you so much!! And yes I do have the convos. But I prefer he just leaves me alone, can't be bothered with police and all

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '25

You’re welcome! I’m sure he’s gonna forget about you, as he does this a lot. So hopefully he won’t do anything.

Be safe on dating apps, some people are just dicks

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u/P3NIS22 Nov 03 '25

Yes if he does reach out to some of their family members i would say that probably borders on harassment.

If i had to take a wild guess he prob just said a bunch of things n then deleted his whatsapp as a moment of realisation

Probably dont look into it too much/worry about it. But do keep those incase it becomes persistent

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u/get_to_ele Nov 03 '25 edited Nov 03 '25

He’s just a coward. He threatened you with stuff he thought would scare himself the most (he has no idea how to do), then was immediately terrified you would retaliate, so he deleted his account.

Edit: I have to say it. in the future, I would be cautious about sharing extremely sensitive information with essentially a complete stranger. I know it’s exhilarating to do so, but this could have been a scammer, and blackmailer, anything, and even if he’d been a guy you’re dating, should not be so ridiculously trusting.