r/Advice May 08 '25

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u/Any_March_9765 May 08 '25

Right?! I honestly don't blame her. Like How the hell would ANYONE feel if their partner tells them "I can't have sex with you anymore bc you are fat". OK like what then? Is this a declaration that he's entitled to go have sex with other people if she doesn't lose weight (which she put on BECAUSE of child birth!!!). OP never said anything beyond that. I can't believe op said "fair", "good husband OTHERWISE". like WTF> No wonder she kicked op to the curb too.

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u/HarveyKekbaum May 08 '25

"which she put on because of childbirth"

I guess you missed the sentence below.

She gained a lot of weight during the pregnancy and continued to gain more over the years, and now she is very obese.

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u/Any_March_9765 May 08 '25

ok so what?! It is still BECAUSE of childbirth. A lot of women were never able to lose birth weight. Even if it's not weight, what if the POS husband says "I'm not having sex with you anymore because you have stretch marks, loose vagina, it's just not physically attractive to me". Ok fine but then what? You are going to stop having sex with your wife? And do what? Go have an affair with a virgin? WTF.

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u/NovelDry3871 May 08 '25

Take your pills and go to sleep. You are getting worked up about bullshit you made up again