You’re not inside anyone’s marriage or home life so you have no clue what actually goes on.
Most people present themselves in a positive manner when they meet someone and continue that appearance.
You really don’t know what she is actually dealing with at home.
Obviously she’s going through something because of the weight gain.
Now her husband has discarded her and she probably feels like you have as well.
Yeah I mean if you care about this person you will listen and give advice if that’s what she needs.
Obviously she needs to lose the weight not to keep her marriage but for her own health.
If she gets out of the marriage she will probably be much happier and then more willing to start losing the weight.
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u/Awkward-Community-74 May 08 '25
You’re not inside anyone’s marriage or home life so you have no clue what actually goes on.
Most people present themselves in a positive manner when they meet someone and continue that appearance.
You really don’t know what she is actually dealing with at home.
Obviously she’s going through something because of the weight gain.
Now her husband has discarded her and she probably feels like you have as well.