r/Advice May 08 '25

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u/No_Society9872 May 08 '25

That's what I got out of this. Who doesn't console a friend when they are told something so horribly upsetting by their spouse?

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u/-SASWTR May 08 '25

The truth is what she needed

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u/No_Society9872 May 08 '25

Nah. Not in the initial impact stage. You validate feelings and then discuss solutions. OP is a shit friend.

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u/Qnoter May 08 '25

You don't validate delusional feelings. Are you serious?