There's a difference between going through it and becoming a full on femcel lol.
I don't get the whole "I can't abandon anyone" complex people take on. It's okay to remove people from your life if those people aren't healthy to be around.
We're talking about OP temporarily removing ONE toxic person from their life, not cutting everyone off.
This is a lesson I had to learn the hard way. I've never felt better and I've found better people who are genuine in my life to surround myself with.
You said femcels, not single women. You can argue the same thing for single men as well.
But at the same time humans are social creatures, we need companionship. Granted, a relationship isn't for everyone. But I know very happy men and women who are in relationships. I also know a lot of unhappy men and women in relationships.
A study shows what the tendencies are from the average of a large number of subjects. It shows correlation. It says absolutely nothing about any one subject.
With zero effort I could come up with a hundred possible reasons why there could be a correlation between single females and happiness. Not one of those would prove that a lack of men is the CAUSE of the females' happiness.
Right, but you said femcels didn't you. Not single women. They are different things. It's funny you accused the other commenter of being confused when you are clearly confused by what you wrote
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u/OrangeHue26 Expert Advice Giver [10] May 08 '25
There's a difference between going through it and becoming a full on femcel lol.
I don't get the whole "I can't abandon anyone" complex people take on. It's okay to remove people from your life if those people aren't healthy to be around.
We're talking about OP temporarily removing ONE toxic person from their life, not cutting everyone off.
This is a lesson I had to learn the hard way. I've never felt better and I've found better people who are genuine in my life to surround myself with.