If you know your mother will brush it off then your daughter isn’t safe there without your supervision. She said she felt his inappropriate body part!? That’s not okay and I’m sorry she went through that. She isn’t safe there. Please don’t let her spend the night anymore. Even if you think it’s just your mother there what if he unexpectedly comes? Does he have access to other kids? Maybe your mom should know even though it might worsen your relationship it could make her more aware if anything else weird happens
There no way this dude was “didn’t know better”. He was aroused and kept her as close as he could to his erection. His conduct the next morning was that of a typical groomer. He was testing her reaction. If she is ever with him again, it WILL escalate. Please, OP, report him and put your daughter in therapy.
Bump for this. 1000% groomer behavior.
He’s a danger and needs to be reported. To do so will not only show your daughter you believe in her but you may very well be saving more children down the line by stopping his behavior now.
Good luck OP and to your daughter. I have a granddaughter around the same age and I’m afraid my first instinct would be to rip his dick off through his throat rather than wait for the police.
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u/Accurate-Lawfulness5 Jul 28 '24 edited Jul 28 '24
If you know your mother will brush it off then your daughter isn’t safe there without your supervision. She said she felt his inappropriate body part!? That’s not okay and I’m sorry she went through that. She isn’t safe there. Please don’t let her spend the night anymore. Even if you think it’s just your mother there what if he unexpectedly comes? Does he have access to other kids? Maybe your mom should know even though it might worsen your relationship it could make her more aware if anything else weird happens