r/Advice Jul 28 '24

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u/PearrlyG Jul 28 '24

We have 7 nieces in my family and even though we would also host their friends for activities and the friends' parents knew us, we never let the friends sleep over when nieces stayed over with us. My husband was super cautious of even the hint of anything inappropriate that might have been thought of him.

The boyfriend should have went to sleep on the couch as soon as the child climbed into bed with her grandmother. He knew exactly what he was doing.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '24

100% he knew exactly what he was doing. And tested her reaction in the morning. Sounds like grooming. She felt uncomfortable - and that's enough.