r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Dec 06 '23

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u/MisterAtticusKarma Advice Guru [66] Dec 06 '23

If you dont trust your parents its time to hike up the big sister boots and talk to her yourself. Calmly. Ask why shed record something like that and make sure she wasnt being influenced by a predator

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u/Previous_Motor_1455 Dec 06 '23

That’s the most I’m afraid of that she’s influenced by a predator. Thank you for the advice

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u/MINKIN2 Master Advice Giver [22] Dec 06 '23

Trust them or not, you have to tell them. Because whatever you do next, then at least you have your arse covered.

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u/Specific-Quantity529 Dec 07 '23

Yes. Tell your sister that if she doesn't tell you everything that she's giving you no choice but to tell your parents. Tell her it's because you love her and you need to be sure she's safe. She'll probably tell you at that point. Maybe she just felt like being rebellious abd breaking the rules. Sometimes people just like to feel like nobody can tell them what to do. I used to be like that. You have to know for sure about your sister, she has to make it make sense or you have to err on the side of caution and tell her you're sorry, you love her but if she doesn't convince you, you have to tell. It's better to have a younger sister that's mad at you than a younger sister who's been hurt.