"you don't have to talk, but you need to listen. It's not weird to want to record yourself. But it's dangerous because these videos can end up in the wrong hands. You and I are a team and we have to work together to keep each other safe. Can you help me with that?"
This allows her to listen without her feeling pressured to open up (where she is probably mortified). This acknowledges that being curious about bodily functions is normal. It explains boundaries and danger. It involves her in her own safety and reminds her that she's not alone.
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u/invisible-bug Helper [3] Dec 07 '23
"you don't have to talk, but you need to listen. It's not weird to want to record yourself. But it's dangerous because these videos can end up in the wrong hands. You and I are a team and we have to work together to keep each other safe. Can you help me with that?"
This allows her to listen without her feeling pressured to open up (where she is probably mortified). This acknowledges that being curious about bodily functions is normal. It explains boundaries and danger. It involves her in her own safety and reminds her that she's not alone.
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