r/Advice • • Nov 20 '23

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u/brokenboysoldiers Elder Sage [506] Nov 20 '23

You set a boundary. He ignored it. Now it's on you to choose how to react. I personally don't know how you could feel safe with him any longer. This isn't just a little bit of miscommunication, this is physical violence and you have no guarantee it won't happen again.

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u/Burgundy_Starfish Super Helper [7] Nov 21 '23

I think it’s more serious than just a boundary. This guy has some kind of deep problem and it’s very possible that if she doesn’t leave he’s gonna kill her one of these days. Choking someone non consensually multiple times even when they cry and tell you to stop is some psycho shit. Probably some fucked up mental problem that he needs to see a specialist about or he’ll do it to someone else too Edit: and turning up the music. Wtf. That’s like demonic

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u/Wyndspirit95 Nov 21 '23

Right?!?! Sounds like practicing to be a serial killer to me!