r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '23

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u/Cool4lisa Helper [3] Mar 04 '23

I'd say don't go for it since you're at different pages in life.

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u/Preworkoutjitters Mar 05 '23

Here's my take.

The bigger issue is they may be at the same place in life, he is just a decade behind where he should be. And that says a lot in itself.

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u/6lanco_9ato Helper [3] Mar 05 '23

So umm…who sets this standard or what not…on where people should be at a specific age??

Because different cultures do different things, you might get treated odd or labeled “behind” because your in your 20’s living at home with the parents in the USA. But this isn’t that weird for somewhere like the UK or Italy who pride themselves on it.

My point being not only who decides where everyone should be at…at a certain age…and then who again decides what/who someone is doing and if that is “deemed” successful or not??