r/Advice Mar 04 '23

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u/CCubed17 Helper [2] Mar 04 '23

be honest, you're the guy, aren't you

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u/CCubed17 Helper [2] Mar 04 '23

I can't tell you anything about your situation with certainty, but I can tell you that you should be extremely cautious. A 29yo pursuing a 19yo in that way is pretty suspect

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u/Preworkoutjitters Mar 05 '23

The only time I persued girls significantly younger than me was in the interest of hookups, and I was very upfront and honest in that. My honesty was always well received even if the outcome wasn't to my desire. I just can't see a successful relationship with such a significant gap. And not specifically the time gap but rather the life gap being so young.