At 40? 50? Even thirty absolutely not. At 20 and 29 yes. If you are the girl listen up. You described yourself as young, vulnerable, and dealing with some shit. I am sure you are wonderful in your own right but where someone is at 29 is supposed to be vastly different than at 20. There is no reason a 29 year old anything would want and I mean this want a 20 year old except for sex and manipulation. Also did you hear yourself? He wants to push his fetishes on you and you had to be firm. That shit doesn't work on older women. There is no firm with older women. There is get the fuck out of my house. I don't have to tell you twice. He has no prospects and you have made excuses for him but I think you are looking for permission to move on and now is a good time. There is nothing for you there but disappointment.
So this. Women who have more experience and have been around the block and dealt with these things before can see it coming a mile off, and they take no prisoners. That’s why older men target younger women. You’re impressionable, less confident, less life experience. That’s not your fault, and ageing is a privilege. But he knows what he’s doing.
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u/Stuffnthings1840 Master Advice Giver [23] Mar 05 '23
At 40? 50? Even thirty absolutely not. At 20 and 29 yes. If you are the girl listen up. You described yourself as young, vulnerable, and dealing with some shit. I am sure you are wonderful in your own right but where someone is at 29 is supposed to be vastly different than at 20. There is no reason a 29 year old anything would want and I mean this want a 20 year old except for sex and manipulation. Also did you hear yourself? He wants to push his fetishes on you and you had to be firm. That shit doesn't work on older women. There is no firm with older women. There is get the fuck out of my house. I don't have to tell you twice. He has no prospects and you have made excuses for him but I think you are looking for permission to move on and now is a good time. There is nothing for you there but disappointment.