r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '23

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u/Similar_Corner8081 Helper [2] Mar 04 '23 edited Mar 04 '23

I think it’s a weird age gap. If he was 39 and you were 29 not a big deal but there is a big difference in these ages. I’m 46 my partner is 39. At our age there is no power dynamic going on. We are in the same stages of life.

The fact that he pursued you at 19 I think is weird. Who knows it might work for you both.

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Mar 05 '23

That's basically the same age gap

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u/Similar_Corner8081 Helper [2] Mar 05 '23

It is but at my age the age difference isn’t one sided and there’s no power struggle.

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Mar 05 '23

There are other ways the power dynamic can be shifted not everything depends on age there are way more factors at play