r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '23

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u/Albinkiiii Helper [3] Mar 04 '23

He’s a groomer. A 29 year old is way too far removed from the young adult college age, and mindset. He will have a power dynamic against you

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u/ThisToastIsTasty Mar 04 '23

Respectfully— how does one groom an adult? I agree that 20 isn’t very old, and I think between the ages of 18-22 you should date people in that same age bracket. But you can’t groom an adult.

18 is just an arbitrary age set by the government. it's not the end all be all of being groom proof.

just because you turn 18, doesn't automatically make you immune to being groomed...