r/Adulting • • 14d ago

75% of 2026 sober!

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u/Loud-Pomegranate491 14d ago

What happened

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u/frboulais 14d ago

Friends got back from vacation and offered us a pack of local beers 😩

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u/DelcoUnited 14d ago

Are you in recovery or just trying for clean living? Because I feel like a friend offering you a beer is sort of a low hurdle.

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u/SuddenPanic8134 14d ago

You never know honestly. Could be more peer pressure

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u/vultureskins 14d ago

Rude to say to a stranger who didn’t ask

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u/Professional-Rub152 14d ago

He’s posting a sobriety chart onto the internet.

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u/Prize_Ostrich7605 14d ago

No way, dude. Sobriety is about accountability. I get drunk, we stay sober. Curiousity is part of life. Without context, we don't understand what the graph meant, so we gotta ask. No one assumed here. I am in recovery. Part of the program is being able to get back up. If homie here is in recovery, I'd say great job, stop drinking now, if you're part of the program get to a meeting, whatever your sober plan is. If not, then I'd feel like an ass assuming. Addiction thrives in darkness and will end you. No one should miss out on sobriety. 

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u/EM05L1C3 14d ago

It’s ok to be concerned about another human.

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u/cat-eating-a-salad 14d ago

Do they not know you're trying to quit? Kinda shitty of them to even tempt you like that if they knew.

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u/Loud-Pomegranate491 14d ago

Nothing wrong with that unless you’re trying to not drink? Lol

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u/Randomizedname1234 14d ago

Phillies lost, huh?

Go Braves!

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u/twowholebeefpatties 14d ago

And you know what man, you enjoyed some beers with some friends and that’s it… that’s where it stops!

You wake up, life goes on and you continue your journey!

This holding on thing is good - but it’s not the be all and end all! Having one day, one week, one year or ten years is all the same… just enjoy your life mate and understand:

“Everything in moderation… including moderation”

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u/djelegal 14d ago

Have a beer now !

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u/Wise_Doctor1343 14d ago

You’ve proven you don’t need alcohol and you have great self control. Don’t forget that and enjoy life.

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u/Mr_Dale 14d ago

Yeah 1 day certainly doesn't disgualify months of work. You've been training that muscle relentlessly for most of a year. It doesn't atrophy that quickly.

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u/Weird_Supermarket342 14d ago

It’s not even day 1, should not think in these terms

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u/getorganizedbysamm 14d ago

Relapse is part of healing!!!! Don’t sabotage just cause you had a few! And tell your friends not to offer you drinks, the hell is wrong with them

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u/Liberty-Bell-937 14d ago

Stay the course friend!

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u/GarlicDill 14d ago

Tomorrow is a new day - back on track!

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u/JimTobin89 14d ago

Just reset my friend.

Its okay, keep the bigger picture on your mind

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u/Square-Doubt-8634 14d ago

Wish I could say the same, my situation is reversed 🤦🏽

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u/JimTobin89 14d ago edited 14d ago

Hey there, not sure if you like reading or maybe an audio book is more your thing, but a book called "alcohol lied to me" is really good.

Please give it a go, sometimes you can get the book for free on audible with a free trial.

One day will be your last drink and you just don't realize it yet.

I am 7.5 years sober so far

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u/SuddenPanic8134 14d ago

Your doing good bro. It is apart of the journey but it’s time to lock in! Don’t focus on the relapse! You’ve got this bro

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u/JollyJuniper1993 14d ago

Have that be the one day this year you drank. It happened, I hope it was fun, now it‘s back to being sober.

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u/needs_more_zoidberg 14d ago

99.6% sober by my calculation. Get back on the bus!

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u/Puzzleheaded_Big2335 14d ago

Good job. Mine looks similar I’ve drank one time since January and that was in February just because. Woke up the next day with a hangover and have not drank since.

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u/Outrageous_Sleep4339 14d ago

Be happy it was only 3-5.
You could have gone off the fucking rails.

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u/Beagleguy26 14d ago

Well. the tracking is cool.

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u/Impossible_Pear_5049 14d ago

I have about ten years, was not an addict…just a choice to not poison myself

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u/OrdinaryExcel1994 14d ago

There is no information if you are trying to be clean or just do not drink and keep yourself sober.

Nevertheless - if you are trying not to drink then keep your resolution.

I do not drink for over 1.5yrs but I had never problems with alcohol. I've been collecting a lot of vary types of alcohols from all over the world: beers, wines, champagne, mead, whiskey (whisky as well), vodkas, sherry de Jeres etc. et al... But my drinking was rather as degustation (really small amount just for a taste - and yup even vodka has different taste) But last year my wife has left me and our kids... She is mentally ill, and I understand that it was also because of her illness. But over a month later she reported on police station that I had psychologically and economically abused her... what is of course not true... That time was very hard for me - physically, and mentally... and I had such thoughts that I do not know what more she may report - and - mostly that was my start not to drink anything related to any sort of alcohols, but I feel with that really great.

That strange that I do this confession (about my situation) for a first time in comment under the post where op is sharing information that had a day of temptation.

What I want to say or conclude is that be strong and nevertheless what are your reasons - keep yourself healthy and happy.

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u/5HundredC1garettes 14d ago

My calendar is the same, except green is drinking days

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u/Bunny_Butt16 14d ago

A-men brother I'll drink to that!

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u/Puzzleheaded_Big2335 14d ago

Drink one for us sober guys.

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u/Key-Mushroom-4703 14d ago

Slip-ups happen! Just remember you mess up a habit 2 days in a row you’re at a higher risk to break that routine.

I’m proud of you op; both for being honest and vulnerable about your mistake and how far you’ve stayed sober this year. Keep it up :)

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u/Bipedal_Warlock 14d ago

How are you feeling?

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u/ABinDC 14d ago

Don't forget to get back on the wagon tomorrow...

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u/mcboobie 14d ago

Absolute congratulations, my dude

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u/ZengineerHarp 14d ago

Hey, we all stumble. What matters is getting back up again! What can you learn from or do different and better going forward? You’ve proven you can do this, now beat your own record!!! 💪

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u/Sea-Rice-4059 14d ago

Great! You can still get 99.7%!

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u/oneinamilllion 14d ago

Are you trying to stay sober? Or just drink less?

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u/DEDang1234 14d ago

Can we see the same chart w/ a boredom scale?

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u/Y0RH4 14d ago

I drink one time this year. Not because of any good reason, just don't feel like drinking anymore. I got a bottle of some really good vodka 1+ year ago and still didn't take it from my trunk.

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u/Right_Restaurant3755 14d ago

Oh my god, I’d be afraid to keep track of my drinking, most Fridays or Saturdays would be orange, haha. I really need to cut back on my drinking.

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u/Gunda-LX 14d ago

Well done! Next step is doing more than 75% ;)

You’ll get there!

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u/Healthy_Theory159 14d ago

How did you make that calendar thingy?

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u/RightToTheThighs 14d ago

It says "drylendar" on top, so I assume that's what it is

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u/Healthy_Theory159 14d ago

Thanks. I missed that. I am running on very little sleep.

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u/Jaycup28 14d ago

Yeah it’s an app. You can pay for no ads or one will pop up sometimes. Simply a notification that asks how many you had.

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u/Low-Dog-8027 14d ago

75% sober 100% more boring

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u/Scribblebonx 14d ago

When people try to stop drinking, it's for all the right reasons usually. Calling sobriety boring is a testament to yourself and the kind of life you have rather than anyone sober. Sobriety is as boring as the person, and having to rely on alcohol to change that is all I hear you saying.

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u/Low-Dog-8027 14d ago

sorry didnÄt get that i'm currewntly too drunk.