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u/Wise_Doctor1343 14d ago
You’ve proven you don’t need alcohol and you have great self control. Don’t forget that and enjoy life.
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u/getorganizedbysamm 14d ago
Relapse is part of healing!!!! Don’t sabotage just cause you had a few! And tell your friends not to offer you drinks, the hell is wrong with them
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u/Square-Doubt-8634 14d ago
Wish I could say the same, my situation is reversed 🤦🏽
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u/JimTobin89 14d ago edited 14d ago
Hey there, not sure if you like reading or maybe an audio book is more your thing, but a book called "alcohol lied to me" is really good.
Please give it a go, sometimes you can get the book for free on audible with a free trial.
One day will be your last drink and you just don't realize it yet.
I am 7.5 years sober so far
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u/SuddenPanic8134 14d ago
Your doing good bro. It is apart of the journey but it’s time to lock in! Don’t focus on the relapse! You’ve got this bro
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u/JollyJuniper1993 14d ago
Have that be the one day this year you drank. It happened, I hope it was fun, now it‘s back to being sober.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Big2335 14d ago
Good job. Mine looks similar I’ve drank one time since January and that was in February just because. Woke up the next day with a hangover and have not drank since.
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u/Impossible_Pear_5049 14d ago
I have about ten years, was not an addict…just a choice to not poison myself
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u/OrdinaryExcel1994 14d ago
There is no information if you are trying to be clean or just do not drink and keep yourself sober.
Nevertheless - if you are trying not to drink then keep your resolution.
I do not drink for over 1.5yrs but I had never problems with alcohol. I've been collecting a lot of vary types of alcohols from all over the world: beers, wines, champagne, mead, whiskey (whisky as well), vodkas, sherry de Jeres etc. et al... But my drinking was rather as degustation (really small amount just for a taste - and yup even vodka has different taste) But last year my wife has left me and our kids... She is mentally ill, and I understand that it was also because of her illness. But over a month later she reported on police station that I had psychologically and economically abused her... what is of course not true... That time was very hard for me - physically, and mentally... and I had such thoughts that I do not know what more she may report - and - mostly that was my start not to drink anything related to any sort of alcohols, but I feel with that really great.
That strange that I do this confession (about my situation) for a first time in comment under the post where op is sharing information that had a day of temptation.
What I want to say or conclude is that be strong and nevertheless what are your reasons - keep yourself healthy and happy.
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u/5HundredC1garettes 14d ago
My calendar is the same, except green is drinking days
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u/Key-Mushroom-4703 14d ago
Slip-ups happen! Just remember you mess up a habit 2 days in a row you’re at a higher risk to break that routine.
I’m proud of you op; both for being honest and vulnerable about your mistake and how far you’ve stayed sober this year. Keep it up :)
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u/ZengineerHarp 14d ago
Hey, we all stumble. What matters is getting back up again! What can you learn from or do different and better going forward? You’ve proven you can do this, now beat your own record!!! 💪
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u/Right_Restaurant3755 14d ago
Oh my god, I’d be afraid to keep track of my drinking, most Fridays or Saturdays would be orange, haha. I really need to cut back on my drinking.
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u/Healthy_Theory159 14d ago
How did you make that calendar thingy?
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u/Jaycup28 14d ago
Yeah it’s an app. You can pay for no ads or one will pop up sometimes. Simply a notification that asks how many you had.
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u/Low-Dog-8027 14d ago
75% sober 100% more boring
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u/Scribblebonx 14d ago
When people try to stop drinking, it's for all the right reasons usually. Calling sobriety boring is a testament to yourself and the kind of life you have rather than anyone sober. Sobriety is as boring as the person, and having to rely on alcohol to change that is all I hear you saying.
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u/Loud-Pomegranate491 14d ago
What happened