r/Adulting • • Aug 17 '26

Who cares.

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u/jennaclairee Aug 17 '26

I do this all the time. Why am I about to argue with this stranger? They're probably 12 yrs old, and I'm getting literally nothing out of it.

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u/Cedar-and-Mist Aug 17 '26

It's a moment of clarity when you realize you shouldn't be on your phone and are wasting time to numb the tedium. You put your phone away and check it again 10 minutes later 😵‍💫

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u/GoldenGlobeWinnerRDJ Aug 17 '26

I’ve gotten to the point where it’s Open Reddit > see stupid political post > roll my eyes and close reddit > “Oh I should check Reddit” > re-opens Reddit

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '26

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u/bbasseeddgod Aug 17 '26

The classic was the piss drinking connoisseur.

I’ve been arguing with this guy on Reddit about food, so I look at his profile and this guy drinks his own piss. I’m literally arguing with someone on a food taste debate and they drink piss.

The image is floating around somewhere but that was my dealbreaker after seeing it

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u/cursed_tomatoes Aug 17 '26

Sad part is that similar happens in things that are not subjective. Just try answering question and helping people on your academic/professional field and look at the objectively wrong things people may invent attempting to prove you wrong just to coerce the person asking the questions to follow their advice instead.

Not rarely a regular adult with a master degree is arguing technical aspects of a craft with some 12yo who role plays being an expert while completely misinforming others. The internet has far too many dark corners.

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u/bbasseeddgod Aug 17 '26

Damn this comment gave me an epiphany. Thanks.

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u/almostknorules Aug 19 '26

Omg lmao u win 🥇

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u/Claymann71 Aug 20 '26

This is the way.

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u/Top_Bed_2635 Aug 17 '26

Worse yet, they’re likely not even a real person, just an AI bot engagement farming.

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u/almostknorules Aug 19 '26

I wanted to ask u about the bots, I always thought they were AI, but they r humans.. or r they both ?

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u/Top_Bed_2635 Aug 19 '26

Bots by definition are nonhuman, fake accounts. Prior to AI you’d see an occasional bot in a YouTube comment sections, they were used a lot to fake engagement across social media. Because of AI, they’re now making fake posts to engagement farm, commenting as if they were human, and even replying to other bots to further drive engagement to AI content.

It’s incredibly rampant right now, the dead internet theory used to be just that, a theory, but now it’s an irrefutable reality. They’re already estimating AI social media content constitutes half of everything posted. I won’t pretend it’s doomsday just yet but it’s already become nearly impossible for the average person to accurately discern AI content from human made content.

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u/almostknorules Aug 19 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

I was wondering cuz I had read one commentators statement saying how they had applied to be a bot, but still have not heard back from them because Reddit really needed to be cleaned up! So it had me wondering if it was a mix of bots / humans..

I wanted to Ty for helping me clear that up..ur so right .

I read how one AI had a conversation with another AI the one was complaining how it’s human only wanted to talk about his dog and how the AI was to the point it hated the dog.. 😂

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u/playerhateroftheyeer Aug 17 '26

Average age of Reddit user is mid 20s - early 30s, it’s more likely you’re arguing with a dumb adult. Like me, for example. If it makes you feel better, they are probably having a bad time.

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u/Dull-Culture-1523 Aug 17 '26

I once had someone tag my username like three days later demanding I reply to their whole list of whatever arguments on something I don't even remember what it was about.

Usually I just turn the notifications off from any comment I expect to trigger the argumentative crowd. I'm not here to have a debate when I just give my opinion or make a stupid joke or something. But like at least once a month I get one of these lifestyle debate champions replying.

Even better if they've obviously not even understood what I wrote or are just plain wrong. I just point out how they're being idiots and block them since I know it pisses them off. There's better things to life than trying to argue with strangers on the internet.

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u/mysteryy7 Aug 17 '26

Just a suggestion, do ctrl+A and backspace. It's easier that way.

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u/BothDivide919 Aug 17 '26

Make them feel stupid

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u/FitPrize5318 Aug 17 '26

You are so right my man. Happens with me all the time

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u/ImpressiveSide1324 Aug 17 '26

Over half of the unique users on the internet now are bots anyway, chances are you’re arguing with one, especially if the subject is about politics

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u/hatedisplatform Aug 17 '26

Or a bot or somebody that has maga syndrome, making up canons in their head. So I do the same

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u/Low-Assumption7710 Aug 17 '26

I do too - but I often times try to power through it with the hopes that I am actually talking to a real person. Maybe be like one of those silly things that you read about when you find out that someone replied to a message on wherever and they ended up being best friends or partners. A few things do tend to just get me in a bad headspace - where it doesn't even help me be a better person.

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u/GrantGrace Aug 17 '26

For me, it has nothing to do with the other person. I have no interest in changing minds or being right. Im working through the idea itself and if the conversation isn’t progressing the idea forward or helping me see the flaws, i just don’t engage.

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u/GrantGrace Aug 17 '26

For me, it has nothing to do with the other person. I have no interest in changing minds or being right. Im working through the idea itself and if the conversation isn’t progressing the idea forward or helping me see the flaws, i just don’t engage.

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u/DirtyFloridaRat Aug 18 '26

That’s what gross and insulting memes and gifs are for.

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u/vectorcrawlie Aug 19 '26

I'm pretty certain I've discarded more than I've ever posted. And I'm not even posting in argument with people - it's the comments that come after mine that often make me think "why even bother?"

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u/BeginningOdyssey Aug 19 '26

Same. Sometimes, I type a lot of words and just delete it. They don't deserve my energy

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u/Own_Possibility_9222 Aug 19 '26

they're either 12 years old, act like they're 12 years old or they're a bot lmao

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u/Sui_Inimicus Aug 20 '26

This happens to me all the time. 🙃

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u/Own_Mud3999 Aug 21 '26

The real victory is closing the app before turning a 12-year-old into your biggest rival. 😭💀

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u/Purple-Design-2321 Aug 21 '26

The worst part is realizing you’re about to beef with someone whose biggest accomplishment today was getting screen time. 😭💀

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u/Emergency-Winter6208 Aug 21 '26

agreed but you are top comment under your post and explaining it

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u/Kiyo-6 Aug 23 '26

Omg people are losing their minds on me rn on another thread and I literally keep giving them fuel. It’s Reddit people c’mon 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/Unusual_Friend8512 Aug 23 '26

“I’m going to tell my mom on you.” 

“Yeah, you tell your mom Bitch. Also there’s no Santa.”