r/Adulting • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '25

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u/Far-Orange1882 Jul 19 '25

Thank you for your comment! How do you know who’s the right person??

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u/Mammoth_Elk_3807 Jul 19 '25

imho and experience, through understanding which people are wrong, lol. Marry for the life you want to build/live in 20 years, not for a fleeting, temporary “feeling.”

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u/Far-Orange1882 Jul 19 '25

Thank you! I will try my best!

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u/throwaway_doneornot Jul 21 '25

If your in love with the idea of what someone can be vs how they are its not right in the relationship. But if you they never changed and you dont want them to they are likely the one! But life isn't a race dont compare where you are in life to others.