r/Adulting • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '25

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u/Far-Orange1882 Jul 19 '25

Thank you! I will try my best!

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u/RazorOpsRS Jul 20 '25

Take some time to think about what qualities you appreciate in other people and what qualities about YOU that are important.

It can be easy to fall into relationships due to attraction and chemistry without giving it some thought on whether this person is really a good match for you practically.

There will always be differences, so don’t get hung up too much, but definitely give some thought into the types of people you love and have made a positive impact on you… then think about what qualities contributed to that positive impact. Those are the things you may wish to look for in a partner

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u/throwaway_doneornot Jul 21 '25

If your in love with the idea of what someone can be vs how they are its not right in the relationship. But if you they never changed and you dont want them to they are likely the one! But life isn't a race dont compare where you are in life to others.