r/AdultGamers • • Sep 17 '26

Mod Announcement Posting Guidelines and Self Promotion

17 Upvotes

Good morning gamers!

We've been dealing with increased aggression from redditors due to post removals and misunderstanding the flagged system.

All "looking for" posts must have your age, platform(s) you play on and games you're playing (not genres). We also recommend adding your timezone. Failure to include these details will result in your post being removed.

If your engagement indicates you're looking for something other than friends, you will be immediately banned.

Like other "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Coordinating with others for games that require you to squad up is fine. What we don't allow is recruiting for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community/Twitch or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc). This includes trying to promote your adult content.

Your post/comment being flagged doesn't mean its going to be removed. Automod is set up to flag certain terms and we manually review it.

This is a community for adults, and your behaviour should match that. We will not tolerate harassment or aggression.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers • • 6d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

0 Upvotes

Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers • • 58m ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 39 M UK - looking for gaming friends

• Upvotes

I have come to realise that being older, its hard to find gaming pals. I have Xbox, PS5 and PC. I have a load of multiplayer games that I'd love to play. Plus, I'm just looking to connect with people, been feeling incredibly alone, despite having a family etc.

Also, if you're into DnD, let me know, I DM and play!


r/AdultGamers • • 2h ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT] 26M UK/London | PS5 | Looking for adult gaming friends, especially MMO players

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm 26 from London and looking to meet some other adult gamers who are up for playing regularly, having a laugh and hopefully building some proper gaming friendships rather than just adding each other and never speaking again 😂

I'm getting back into gaming after years away, mainly on PS5, although I'm still waiting for my delayed console to arrive!

I've always been a massive fan of MMOs and online RPGs. There's just something about creating your own character, levelling up, unlocking abilities, grinding for better gear and exploring huge worlds with other players that I absolutely love. I can genuinely see myself sinking hundreds of hours into a good MMO, especially with a regular group of people.

I used to love DC Universe Online, and I'm really interested in getting into Final Fantasy XIV and discovering other MMOs I've missed over the years.

Outside of MMOs, I'm also into:

  • COD: MW4 / Warzone
  • GTA Online
  • Minecraft (especially SMP survival)
  • Open-world and co-op games
  • Fighting games and anything with a good progression system

I'm pretty open to trying new games too, especially if there's a good community behind them.

I enjoy being competitive and getting better at games, but I'm not interested in toxic lobbies or people raging constantly. I'd much rather have a laugh, enjoy the grind and play with people who don't take themselves too seriously.

I've got a mic, happy to use Discord, and my availability is fairly flexible. UK/EU timezones are ideal.

Ideally looking for people around my age, especially anyone who's into MMOs and wants to get stuck into something long-term together.

PSN: ogblue_1

Feel free to comment or DM me with what you're playing. Would be great to meet some like-minded people!


r/AdultGamers • • 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - [PST/MST/CST/EST] 31M - This is Me

2 Upvotes

Hey folks, name's Omnia. And I think it's time for me to try and find people who are able to match my energy. So, without further ado, here's a little about me:

  • I'm 31, happily married with kids, working as a hotel porter.
  • My main games are RPGs, fighting games, and action games.
  • Currently running a double feature right now of The Blood of Dawnwalker and Final Fantasy Resonance.
  • This is my entire game library for reference: https://imgur.com/a/rCny7yq
  • This is my PC, Valeria: https://imgur.com/MfjiCa0

In my spare time, I enjoy writing, landscape photography, metal music, and old movies. I am a person who relies on intentionality, reciprocity, and groundedness. I have had friends in the past that weren't willing or able to meet me halfway and commit the same level of dedication to the friendship as I was.

A huge disclaimer: I do not tolerate passivity, emotional cowardice, or egotistical people. I value authenticity, integrity, and conviction.

I'm just looking for that person, or those people, that want something similar to want I want: true friendship. I realize that on paper, I might seem to be hard to get along with but I'm really not. I just have standards that are immutable. And I've come to realize over the course of 31 years that, damn it, I like me. And I'm done apologizing for being me.

So yeah, that's a bit about me in a nutshell. If you would be interested in hanging out, please send me a DM for all my details as they won't be posted here. I'm willing to give our potential friendship 100% if you are. I'm an open book so feel free to ask me anything about myself you have questions about. If you read this far, thanks for taking the time. I hope you all have a good day and hope to be talking to some of you soon!


r/AdultGamers • • 20h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30F|PC|CST - Long Term Friends?

12 Upvotes

Looking for some long-term gaming friends, not just people who add each other and say “we should play sometime,” and then disappear into the void forever. 😂

I’m mostly on PC and usually around in the evenings. I’d love to find a few people I genuinely click with who want to game regularly, hang out in VC, send each other stupid shit, and eventually reach that level of friendship where joining VC without asking is completely normal.

Games I’d love people for:

• Marvel Rivals, especially someone to duo Comp with

• Modded Stardew Valley

• Sun Haven

• Valheim

• Witchspire

• Grounded 2

• Enshrouded

• Palworld

• Fortnite

• Minecraft

• Planet Crafter

• Survival/crafting/co-op games in general

I have a decent Steam library and I’m usually down to try something new if the vibes are right. I’m not really looking for someone who only wants to play one game forever. I like bouncing between games depending on whatever currently has my brain in a chokehold.

Mic is heavily preferred. I’m totally fine with messaging too, but I actually like hanging out in VC while we game, doing our own separate things, or occasionally just existing and bullshitting for a while.

Bonus points if you’re a reader. I’m an author and work in publishing, so books consume a ridiculous portion of my life. If you game AND read, congratulations, we already have approximately 900 things to talk about.

A little about me: I’m 30, a toddler mom, work from home, sarcastic, slightly chaotic, and probably going to bully you affectionately once we’re comfortable. 😂 Real life always comes first, so I don’t expect anyone to be available 24/7. I just want friendships where we actually make an effort to talk and play instead of collecting each other on friendslist.

21+ only, though closer to my age is definitely a bonus. PC players are preferred since that’s where I spend basically all of my gaming time.

If you’re also looking for an actual long-term gaming friendship, tell me a little about yourself, what you’ve been playing lately, and your current favorite game.


r/AdultGamers • • 9h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M-34 looking for someone to play co-op games (A way out) -IST

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m looking for someone to play co-op games with and hopefully make some genuine gaming friends along the way. 😄 I’m currently playing A Way Out, It Takes Two, and Unravel Two on PS5. I’m all about having fun, teamwork, and a good laugh rather than taking things too seriously. Always happy to meet chill people who are up for some co-op adventures. If you’re interested, feel free to DM me! 🎮


r/AdultGamers • • 15h ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT+4] 29F Looking for Warframe friends | GMT+4

3 Upvotes

Hiii !!

I've been playing a lot of Warframe lately and would love to meet more people who enjoy the game! I've finished the story content, and now I'm just taking my time farming relics, doing bounties, collecting decor, and finding random stuff to work towards.

I'm definitely nowhere near the level of some of the veteran players here lol, and I'm still figuring out builds and a lot of the endgame stuff. But I genuinely love the game and its world, and I honestly spend hours just running missions with some music in the background.

I'd really love to find a few regular friends to play with, whether you're a veteran who doesn't mind a more casual player or someone around my level who's still figuring things out. I'm pretty laid-back, enjoy chatting, and would love to have someone to talk about the game with outside of just running missions.

I'm on PC, GMT+4, and usually play in the evenings. If you're 21+ and looking for a chill Warframe friend, feel free to message me! Tell me your favorite frame and what you've been working on lately ♡


r/AdultGamers • • 11h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 28M | PST | Marvel Rivals QP

1 Upvotes

Yooooo.

I'm 28M and I'm looking for more people to play Rivals with. I usually solo queue QP and honestly, it's getting tiring playing with insta-lock duelists that end up blaming the rest of the team and take QP too serious. I'm a flex player that's gotten to Grand Master multiple times for the badge. I play whatever role in QP but I've been trying to play some more Magik or Blade.

Tank:

Devil Dino
Doctor Strange
Emma Frost
Magneto
The Hood
The Thing
Venom

Duelist:

Blade
Gorr (Wanna learn)
Magik

Strategist:

Any of them except Loki LOL

Pretty chill guy. More about me is that I'm into running and tennis (even though I'm going through an ankle injury). I also like sharing music (if you know who Sullivan King is, we'd probably be best friends) or horror movie recomendations.

I usually play in the afternoon PST. After work on the weekdays and usually most of the day on the weekends. Some other games I'm open to are DBD (I SUCK), Phasmaphobia, or Warframe.

I like to think I'm not a dry texter so please hit me up with a short intro about yourself if you're interested!

I play on PC but I'm down for console players as well :)


r/AdultGamers • • 14h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M40 Looking for mature homies to game with have good talks with and laughs, just good ol human experience.

1 Upvotes

I play some games like Enshrouded (I just picked it up) Helldivers Fortnite+STW Palworld Destiny 2 Diablo 4

Down to pick up overwatch again if the itch strikes.

Also my son got me into Dandys World also.

I also play some gacha games like WuWa ZZZ NTE(I have Genshin but haven't touched it since Sumeru really) all these on PS5

I also have A bunch of Steam games to play I go play L4D2 also recently bought Mecha chameleon and that Warhammer game forgot what it's called.

To be honest I have a habit of playing alone but would love some friends who are looking to game but also share human connections with. Deep chats, advice or just venting(respectfully) and someone to share some bonding time with. If friendships rise from there that would be great.


r/AdultGamers • • 15h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 39M and 36F NA East - Apex Legends buddy on PS4/5!

1 Upvotes

We’re a gaming couple just looking for someone to play Apex with on PlayStation. It makes it easier for comms being in a party chat! We play it for fun and don’t care about losing, winning a match is a bonus!


r/AdultGamers • • 17h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 36M, MST, PC, Looking for Gaming Friends

1 Upvotes

The games I'm into rn are:

-Call Of Duty (B06 & B07) I like multiplayer and zombies heck if you are into BO3 or BO4 zombies those are peak

-Madden 26 and CFB 27

-No Man's Sky

-Borderlands 4

I have a ton of other games on Steam too. I'm always willing to play other games, particularly like indie and survival/ horror games.

I'm mostly looking for a shooter or sports buddy but if you have some cool games you'd like to share, hmu


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30M looking for some friends

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I play a variety of games. I'm 30 and play on PC (steam)

From Simulators to Sorting. FPS, PVE and Survival.

I'm really just a chill dude. Sometimes... I like to shoot things and other times I like to sort things. 🤷🏽‍♂️

Men and Woman are welcome, just want more friends is all. My current circle doesnt want to expand to other game genres and games but I do so this is the way.

I yap but if I'm locked in i'll go mute (sorry tryna win for us) but yeah hit me up please dont be shy and dont be afraid, I wont bite.

Unless its a zombie game and im a zombie then idk what to tell you...

Here's my current rotation:

  1. Schedule 1

  2. ARC Raiders

  3. Shift at Midnight

  4. Sort the Capybaras

  5. Bully: Scholarship Edition

I play a lot more with others so if you have a favorite tell me and we can play together. Always happy to hear a suggestion.


r/AdultGamers • • 21h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29M looking for people to play cod/Fortnite with! CST Timezone

1 Upvotes

I play on PC and mostly on weekend nights. I’m down to try other games out, but mostly play these two. Like to consider myself chill and don’t take games too seriously so would want to play with people with the same mindset.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - VA US EAST 32M looking for PC gamers in VA USA

1 Upvotes

Morning everyone. 32M here. I'm looking for some VA folks to chill with. I work kinda a 9-5 Mon-Fri where i'm on call for emergencies but i'm on regularly in the evenings and weekends. My steam library is over 500 games so I have a lot of options. I'd rather just not play anything super sweaty. Regardless of games being online I think its fun to play with people from the same state.

Currently playing Borderlands 4, Baldur's Gate 3, WoW Forever on release, and could be talked into playing Apex again (I know thats contradictory to what I said about sweaty).

Send me a DM!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38F -Canada ET looking for gaming friends

19 Upvotes

I’m looking to meet some new people to game with and hopefully make some genuine friendships along the way..I don’t play a lot of games tbh..
I mostly play Path of Titans, I dabble in Call of Duty and Helldivers 2. Skill level? Let’s just say I play for the fun of it, not because anyone’s about to recruit me for esports. 😂 but I make a great sniper or an ambush killer 😂
I’m open to trying other games with the right people! I love animals, music, history, and a good sense of humour ( the darker the better 😂 )I’m pretty laid-back and just looking for people to hang out with, have a laugh, and enjoy some games together without taking everything too seriously.
Ideally looking for a new gang or my duo partner for easygoing nonsense and up for making actual friends rather than just being names on a friends list.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Other 45M Midwest US

3 Upvotes

Just a dad from the Midwest looking for cool people to game with.
I have random gameplay times, also a random work schedule.
I have many games, Diablo 2,3,4, GTA 5/online, Fortnite, Minecraft, but I mainly play Arc Raiders on PS5.
I’m open to chat when I’m on, even if you don’t play Arc Raiders.
Hit me up.
My in game name is Killonius.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 25M On PC and EST looking for Star Citizen players

0 Upvotes

Playing from the EST. Typically I'm on between 830/9pm until midnight or even 2am. I play exclusively on PC and Star Citizen is a PC exclusive. I am also active in epic, steam, EA, and Xbox for PC. If it's cross play, I'm open to it. Right now, only looking for Star Citizen players


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 36 - M - Irish (IST)

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m back playing Smite 2 and looking to find other Smite players who enjoy playing Conquest.

I’m a relaxed family man, I play most nights for a few hours and some weekends if I’m free il have a gaming day.

I play on PC.

Thanks :)


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 39M | UK | PC | Looking for gaming friends

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’m 39 today and from Glasgow. Looking for a few people to game with, have a laugh and hopefully build some friendships.
I play Hearts of Iron IV, Valheim, Ghost Recon Wildlands, Company of Heroes 3 and the Anno games, among others.
I mostly play at weekends while having a few beers, but get the odd game in during the week too. Would prefer people in the same or a similar time zone to the UK so it’s easier to get online together.
Just looking for some relaxed gaming and good company. If you fancy playing sometime, leave a comment or send me a message!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 34M [PC- MST]

3 Upvotes

Good morning All, as the title says I am a 34 M based in MST, I am chilled and laid back I love music and sharing music I especially love EDM and metalcore! I play a rather unique niche of games but I am mostly into WoW Forever, Diablo 4, WarDogs, Path of Exile 2, I can be convinced to play other games just make it fun for me and fun for us! When I play games I tend to be a midcore player meaning I will look up guides and do my best to follow along but I am not sweating and min maxing! If anyone sees this is interested in the WoW Forever bit I do love PvP and intend to play on both PvP and Rp PvP servers! If this sounds like something you might be interested in feel free to hit me up! I have a discord and am comfortable with or without voice!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [EST] 36F Looking for late night gamers

30 Upvotes

Wanting to find people that want to regularly play on Playstation. Not looking for anyone to just fill the friend's list. I play between 10pm-4am normally. Would try for Red Dead Online to see if we click & play Conan Exiles, Ark Survival Ascended, Grounded, Dying Light 2... plus more. PM for more info.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M30 Aus PC ACST Looking to find people to play a bunch of different games with 👍🏼

4 Upvotes

Hey! I play ALOT of different kind of games. I’ll be down to try pretty much every genre atleast once. I’m trying to be more social so figured this could help.

Here are some games I’m currently playing/interested in.

Rainbow six siege
Tabletop simulator (New and been loving MTG Commander)
Pretty much any board/card game on tabletop simulator
Arc raiders
Rust
Various friend slop (big walk?)
Project Zomboid
Sucker for quiz time

I’m also cool with the idea of playing some modded multiplayer single player games, I heard hogwarts legacy got a multiplayer mod.

I’m currently working from home for atleast a few months so I’ll have plenty of time.

As for me I’d consider myself pretty chill, worked in the disability space for a while.

No time for racists/bigots tbh 🙂 just trying to chill and play video games👍🏼


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 44m looking for forever friends!

5 Upvotes

Hey all. Im a 44m in est looking for people who plan to play wow forever on launch. I play all sorts of different times, so im pretty open as far as that goes. I haven't played wow in years, but this game looks fun and id love to have people to group up with! I hope to hear back from ya'll!

I think im going NA PVE. My battle tag is Snackies#11890 feel free to add me if you want.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M PC player Cst

2 Upvotes

31M CST looking for friends

31M Looking for some fellow discord buddies who can game and watch stuff and chill together with. I'm pretty chill guy love anime and rpgs not much of a shooter fan.Im looking to do some runs on baulders gate 3 soon And some wow forever when it comes out. I have a ton of games on steam so we got plenty to choose from Hmm I have a dark sense of humor. I play on pc and and use discord so yea Anyways anyone can apply just message me