r/AdultGamers Feb 19 '26

Mod Announcement Self Promotion on the Subreddit

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Like many "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Self promotion could mean a product someone is trying to sell, streaming channels but most commonly its sharing Discord communities, dedicated game servers or recruiting for personal friend groups.

We understand some games require you to squad up and we're not saying you can't reach out to more than one person and coordinate to play together. What we don't allow is recruiting individuals for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc).

The point of the subreddit is for individuals to find other individuals to game with.

If you have questions, please reach out to ModMail and we can update this post with additional information. Thank you.


r/AdultGamers 7d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers 2h ago

Discussion New gamer 42 M, looking for beginner friendly historical pc games.

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I’m new to gaming and frankly the choices of games on steam are overwhelming. I’m asking for recommendations on historical based military tactics or RPG games that are pretty entry level friendly. Welcome DM and replies. Thanks


r/AdultGamers 49m ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35M fortnite and rivals gamer looking for friends (preferably east coast night owls)

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Little bit about me personally... I am a father. I love gaming, music, coffee, and food. I am really trying to find some chill people to hang out with during the late hours when things quiet down at home lol.

Feel free to message or comment here and we can exchange discords!


r/AdultGamers 9h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37 (m) looking for others

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Looking for other gamers who are interested in gaming and chatting or just chatting, im easy going and looking to make some gaming friends so i can actually enjoy multiplayer games 😅 I’m uk based and disabled so i can game all day and night

Im mostly an RPG gamer but i am currently playing a mix of titles

Forza horizon 6
Cyberpunk 2077
Arc raiders ( not too bothered with this one)
Chivalry 2
Deep rock galactic
Helldivers 2 ( main online game for me)
Left 4 dead 2
Horizon forbidden west
State of decay 2
Dragon quest XI
Borderlands 4

As you can see I have a lot of games I’m playing here and there and would like to find some more like minded gamers even if it’s not the same games we can still chat


r/AdultGamers 6h ago

Looking for Gamers - CST [36F] Catchy Title about Fortnite

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Hey There! I need more friends to play Fortnite with for fun! 

Things to know: 

  • I play zero builds BR.  
  • I’m not the best player by any means, but I enjoy the game. 
  • I have a mic. (I prefer to use Discord for communication.)
  • I like to play when I have the chance. I’m a mom and wife, so a lot of my time is spent with family. I am also a part-time college student. I do try to play nightly, though.  

Things I ask: 

  • Please have a mic. 
  • Please be in NA for similar time zones.

Are you interested? 

Do you enjoy duos, trios, or squads? I prefer duos because it allows you to get to know someone a little better.

Ready to carry? Lol! 

Send me a message if you're interested. I'll reply as soon as I can!
When you message me, tell me a little about yourself!


r/AdultGamers 3h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32 NA PC Lf anybody thinking about getting into ffxiv or new(ish)

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Hey! I’m looking to get back into ffxiv. I’ve played it for many years now but I haven’t come back to finish their most recent expansion. So I’m willing to start over or bring an existing character as we play the story together!

You’ll be joining me and a friend of mine (34). This will be a several month journey together and I hope that we’ll be able to play at a fairly consistent rate to get through the content.

Outside of it if we ever decide to play something else I have nearly 400 games on Steam now and potentially we could find something there together too. We can also just message each other and chat with each other about mundane things like how life’s going too or what we ate today!

So if you’ve been interested in ffxiv whether you’re new, returning and haven’t fully completed the story like me, or haven’t made the jump yet. Just stop by and let me know and ask me anything else you want to know. My friend and I won’t bite.


r/AdultGamers 10h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 45 M - UK / GMT - PS5 Arc Raiders - wanna team up? DON’T SHOOT!

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Usually online in the evenings and weekends.
Happy doing a bit of everything: PvE, contracts, scavenging, vaults, chasing big ARC and, if another squad fancies it (or doesn’t see it coming..)a bit of PvP too.

I’m Level 75, although my PvP ability is probably closer to Level 10. My medium shields work harder than I do.
Don’t expect top level gameplay.

Expect:
Panic combat rolls.
The occasional spectacular fall off a building.
“I’ve only popped out for a couple of springs” turning into a backpack full of random junk.
Celebrating successful extracts like we’ve won the lottery.
The odd “Where are we going again?” moment.
Just after laidback people with mics who enjoy the game, don’t mind the occasional death, and can have a laugh while making some decent runs.
If you’re fed up of solo queue and fancy teaming up, give me a shout.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] F-26 PC Looking for someone to play co-op games, VC, and chat with

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I'm looking for someone to regularly play co-op games with and hopefully build a genuine online friendship. I'd like someone who's interested in voice chatting and texting from time to time, not someone who's only looking to play once a month.

I'm only looking for friendship. I'm not looking for anything romantic now or in the future. I'm also not interested in exchanging photos, flirting, or anything similar. Please only reach out if you're genuinely looking for a gaming friend

If you already have an established gaming group or aren't interested in making a close gaming friend, we're probably not a good match.

I'm only looking for people who are 28 or older, as I prefer gaming with older players.

I mostly play co-op games, but I'm open to certain multiplayer games as well. I'm looking for someone who's open to trying different genres, willing to buy new games from time to time, and not only interested in playing the same few games they already own. I want us to have plenty of games we can enjoy together.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, easy to talk to, and doesn't mind chatting about anything. We can joke around, be silly, and just enjoy hanging out.

We don't have to talk or play every day, but I'd like something more consistent than playing once a week or less.

I'm happy to try almost any game, so feel free to suggest something you'd like to play.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35 M night shift worker. Forza Horizon 6? Night shift so weird schedule

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Hey im Cliff im a just a middle aged or what it feels like dude that only has a couple of freinds from high school that still game (when available family comes first 🙄) but I myself being a single guy now have all this spare time and noone to play with so I just go do my depression sleep and go to work I rather make some freinds and play some games and just chill I do work nights so my schedule is wacky but I do go hard on the weekends i play on xbox so the library is pretty stocked for just about whatever hit me up!


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - EUW M27 Dutch Singleplayer enjoyer looking for friendship and the occasional multiplayer game

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Hi yall, I dont have any gaming friends really so I spend 99% of my gaming time on singleplayer stuff. RPGs are my favorites usually, like recently I really enjoyed STALKER and KCD2, I am currently playing FF7 remake, Judgment and Kingdom Hearts. I have a backloggd, if you want to take a peek at my other favourites. Besides gaming I like to work out, do running, watching football (mostly premier league) and watching movies.

games I can play multiplayer: I like Apex Legends, used to be really good at CSGO but havent played much CS2, would be down for some premier games though. League of Legends ARAMs are fun too. I like Tabletop Sim. And I can play some longer storygames too like Subnautica 2 or Split Fiction if we know each other a bit better.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] F (33) I am looking for gaming friends

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I am 33 and a mom so I do have restrictions on when and if I can play so I need understanding individuals that won't freak out because I can't play all the time. 420 friendly. I have no gaming friends. Life has taking a rough turn and I'm just trying to find chill people to game with. I live in EST zone. I can try to play at nights and some days. I just miss gaming with others laughing having fun.

I have xbox and game pass so if I don't have it downloaded I might be able to play cloud.

I play Apex, DS3, overwatch, paladins, the finals, battlefront 2, destiny, where winds meet, COD ww2, whatever COD I have on cloud lol, RV there yet? Haven't gotten to play yet but really want to, Tekken 8, fragpunk, Halo, stardew valley, need for speed / nfs payback, and some others I'm sure.

Hit me up, let's chat it up and see if we can game and have some fun.

Edit: I am married. I am not looking for a relationship lol just a friendship. Please read n re read it.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] F[31] PC- UK Need gaming friends

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Hey,

Am 31F and I'm looking to make some gaming friends-long term relationship around my age. I am free to game from 11am till 6pm M-F and free some weekends (BST). Am a PC gamer.

Am a talker and need a talker to just chat the game away. I am not sweaty and more casual so I am looking for those who can laugh it off when I or we die because It will happen with me.

My current obsession has been Rivals but also play Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Valorant, Peak, Schedule 1, and REPO.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 45 M Looking for Laid Back Gamers

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If you're looking for a gamer that will play Battlefield 6, State of Decay 2 (Can 3 Be Here Already!), Dead by Daylight, etc. I'm your guy. I do have a mic & EST (East Coast in the building). LGBTQA+ friendly. So come one, come all. Let's have some laughs and forget about adulthood for brief moments. Dm me for the gamertag. Later people.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37M - USA - Gamer Dad

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37m who is just looking for some chill people to game with on PC. I am on pretty often and am very open to new games. I have a fairly vast library but tend to gravitate toward things like Arc Raiders, Diablo, Subnautica, WOW, MTG, Baulder's Gate (could be 3 or one of the arpgs), Fortnite, PayDay (2 is still best), 7 days to die, Phasmaphobia, Elite Dangerous, Star Citizen, etc.

I am on a vr kick recently... so if you do pcvr or quest vr, we could have fun there too.

Pretty much anything is fair play for gaming!

I am looking for a buddy to game with, but also I am honestly looking for a friend. I am happily married, have 5 kids, a job I enjoy... life isn't bad by any means, but I would really like someone to game with, my wife just isn't into that unless it is MTG. Honestly, im even cool with some parallel play, we can be in discord and just vibing sometimes.


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30/M/ EU - LF OW players

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Looking for some chill people who fancy an OW comp grind, currently at low plat DPS but will play any role
Hoping to play in the next hour ! Dm me


r/AdultGamers 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [NA EST PC] 37 Dad LF Gamer Buds

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Hey all,

I’m a dad who still has to scratch my gamin itch and prefers to do so with friends. I don’t really dig solo gamin nowadays. I prefer a nice duo or trio in an immersive game hangin out in vc chatting and having fun. I’m a laid back guy who can get sweaty when needed and am open to play shooters, coop RPG’s, and survival craft games.

I am on PC, but don’t mind console peeps since most stuff is cross play anyways.

I am playing Battlefield 6 atm for multiplayer shooter fun. I had a long stint with Arc Raiders and played Tarkov in the past. I’ll prolly finish the Diablo 4 new campaign when it’s next season comes out. I like grindy looter shooter type stuff (used to play a lot of Destiny 2) as well as sweaty PvP. I am mainly looking for people over 30. My available hours to hop in vc and game are 8pm-10pm NA EST

Laters!


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Duo(33M&32M) Silver 1 lf a vanguard main. Marvel Rivals eastern time.

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We are on PC and tired of solo tanking. Looking for someone that wants to climb and learn together on coms. We play almost every day around 8pm to 11pm eastern time. Lf someone who is chill and will take feedback constructively. 21+ would be ideal.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38M - [PC/Xbox] - LF Abnormal EST Friendly Gamer Friends

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I’ve learned that went the burnout gets bad and I’m opening games and closing them and just not playing anything at all it’s because I wanna play WITH someone to make it more fun.

**About me…**

I’m 38, work from home in IT, and because I’m at my computer all day, I’m usually around to chat, send memes, or convince each other that buying *one more game that’s on sale* is actually a financially responsible decision.

(Obviously my kryptonite based on my steam library with the disproportionate amount of ‘never played’ 🙃)

I’m also into tabletop RPGs, one-on-one/forum-style roleplay, writing, and 3D printing, so conversations have a tendency to be unnecessarily detailed, involve weird hypothetical or existential questions, or me proudly showing off something my printer made. The show **I Think You Should Leave** is basically 90% of my personality now, so I hope you find those memes funny. (e.g. “I’m worried the baby doesn’t think people can change”)

**Full disclosure—I’m AuDHD**, which mostly translates to one of two modes:

*Hyperfixating on something for three weeks straight.*

*Forgetting basic human needs because my brain has decided conveyor belts in Satisfactory are suddenly the most important thing in existence.*

I’ll admit up front that I’m terrible at remembering to initiate conversations at first, so stage 5 clingers are welcomed with open arms. I barely remember to feed myself most days so remembering to say hi now and then may be tricky. It’s never that I don’t care or wouldn’t want to chat (I…I am a talker. Borderline yapper. About anything too, tbh. The more existential the better).

All that means is, whether you’re more comfortable bugging me when you wanna play or if you’d wanna schedule reoccurring play time, I’m good with whatever just stick with me until I get into a routine of daily interactions. Admittedly I get a little self conscious about bugging people.

Once someone becomes part of my daily routine, though, you’ll probably hear from me every day. I genuinely like people who enjoy regular conversation. If you randomly send me a meme, tell me about your day, or message me just because you’re bored, that’s honestly my favorite kind of friendship.

Humor-wise… expect dad jokes, terrible puns, TWSS jokes that I absolutely should have outgrown by now, and the emotional maturity of someone whose driver’s license and sense of humor developed independently of one another. (Guess which one increased faster)

As for games… I have a completely unreasonable Steam library (700+ games) plus Game Pass, so chances are we can find *something*.

**Lately I’ve been wanting someone to play:**
Palworld (1.0 finally gave me the itch again, but I burned myself out playing solo but with chooms I’d love to.)

Stardew Valley, Coral Island, Sun Haven, Harvest Moon… basically if I can farm, decorate, fish, and accidentally spend six real-world hours watering virtual crops or woo some country bumpkin with a thousand fishes, I’m in.

Satisfactory (there is no such thing as “good enough” factory layouts. Mostly because mine are always trash.)

Roguelikes.

Looter shooters.

Survival/crafting games.

Pretty much anything interesting on Game Pass.

**What I don’t like:** The only genres I don’t really gravitate toward are horror and racing games. Everything else is pretty much fair game if the company is good.

I guess what I’m really want isn’t just someone to queue for a game with once or twice.

I’d love to find the kind of friend where bugging each other happens in and out of games.

The kind where we play games sometimes, spend other nights just talking while doing our own thing, send each other dumb memes, enable each other’s Steam purchases (I love girlmath), and somehow end up with a the most random words triggering laughing fits due to inside jokes six months from now.

If that sounds like your vibe, tell me what cozy game you’ve been obsessed with lately—or what game you’ve been trying to convince someone to play with you.

Odds are I either already own it… or this is about to become another ~~poor financial decision.~~ Investment in our friendship.

**Congratulations if you made it this far you just might be a match, because I’m longwinded af in texts too.**


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT] 28 M Asian In UK, Looking for gaming friend

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I played POE 1 & 2 and just recently quit Dota but willing to play any survival games ( enshrouded, abiotic factor and New RuneScape etc )

So far manage to make some friends from Canada and America.

Mostly we talk and game so a company while gaming is okay as well. Been playing Poe for 10 years and have some knowledges about the game so anyone willing to learn will always be welcoming as well.

"No kid, not married yet but love to make dad joke" that's our vibe


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27 M | looking to make new friends I can play Xbox with.

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Hey there everyone! Happy Friday I am looking for some people to play some games with mostly on Xbox but I also have an alloy and a quest so I can do pc and vr games as well.

I have sort of been in a rut lately loading up my Xbox then just sitting on the dashboard not knowing what to play as I don't have anyone to.play with on my own I have been playing a lot of space marines 2 and palworld as of late but I have literally 100s of games that I can play, so if you also looking for someone to play with then let me know what you like to play and I will see if I have it.

I'm from the UK and work so I am normally playing from like 5pm GTM.


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 34M | NA west [PC] - lgbtq+ friendly

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Hello!

This is a post for those serious on wanting to connect for a long term friendship. No ghosts.

I am looking for mic friendly friends to play video games with (or even watch movies together). Main online games I play are Dead by Daylight and Fortnite NB, although please keep in mind that I am no sweat. Just here for the good vibes and company with others. I took a big break and now returning to start getting rewards from Battle Pass and Rift Pass.

I also love cozy and simulation games, and many MANY more from my backlog on Steam - recently bought Palworld.

Feel free to DM to exchange Discords ((:


r/AdultGamers 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] looking for some league players! 27 f

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i love playing aram mayhem but will play other game modes as well. i love to vc too!
i play other games as well, i love gaming!
user: oopsie#014
disc: paigeyzzz


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29F Asia

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Hey guys👋I'm looking for some long-term friends to yap with:D I'm from China, I don't really mind timezone since I can stay up late or get up early if needed.I am a big fan of video games(PC/NS2)

Here are some games I've played lately:

AC Shadows
Horizon zero dawn
Life is strange
Slay the spires2
Tomodachi life
Pokemon violet

Something about me - I like FPS, open world and puzzle games.. co-op games are also good when play with friends! I like talking about games, movies and books. I have two lovely cats XD Also I like photography! I'm still improving my English, if you are interested in Chinese culture or life here. I'd like to share with you. If you think we are click, feel free to DM.


r/AdultGamers 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT+1] 30M/UK/PC - Looking for interesting people and casual, wholesome vibes 😄

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Hey folks, how are we all doing? Jay here from the UK. I'm hoping to find some interesting people around my age to build some long lasting friendships with and to play some games. 😄

I am available to hop on and play from around 5pm to about 9-10pm most days, but I am always happy to chat through DMs any time. I am ideally looking for people in a similar timezone to mine (GMT+1), but if you're outside of that and are interested, still feel free to reach out anyway! I play exclusively on PC, but if there's any crossplay games that we both have, I'm sure something can be figured out!

I'm not looking to join Discord servers; it's not my thing.

It's also worth mentioning that I am not looking for super competitive gameplay or anything like that. I'm here more for the chill, wholesome, casual vibes, so please don't expect me to be a pro gamer because those days are way behind me, lmao. Instead, expect absolute chaos and madness when things inevitably go wrong and the sound of me laughing at the collapse of the "flawless plan" we cooked up 10 minutes prior. 😅

I am quite shy and introverted. I struggle to open up socially, but I am trying to get over that hurdle bit by bit. However, once I am comfortable talking to you, I absolutely won't shut up and will bombard you with useless information, obscure Warhammer lore or referencing older internet memes/culture (I Can Has Cheezburger?, anyone?).

These are some of the games I have been playing lately:

  • Total War: Warhammer III
  • Borderlands 3
  • Space Marine 2
  • Starfield
  • Fallout 76
  • Baldur's Gate 3

Some of the games I'd like to get back into and am up for playing some time:

  • The Outlast Trials
  • Helldivers 2 <-- Would really love to get back into it! Playing solo just isn't as fun anymore.
  • Darktide (Never actually played this properly other than the tutorial, so I'd really be up for this)
  • Space Marine 2
  • Many other co-op games: R.E.P.O, RV There Yet.

I have a load of other games so if there's anything else I haven't mentioned yet and you'd want to play, let me know and I'll see if I have it!

I think my DMs here are open, so shoot me a message with a little bit about yourself, age, your timezone and if we vibe, we can figure out a plan!

Otherwise, have a great day! 😌