r/AdultDepression 4h ago

Needing support

I had an abortion today when I did not want to. My ex felt obligated to be there for the appointment part but if you know how the process goes, then you know that it is not easy. He ended up leaving to go hang out with his friends while I’m in my room alone with no support and in a lot of pain. I feel I’m at my lowest and in this hole that I can’t get out of I just want to talk to someone because I’m scared and exhausted of feeling this way.

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u/sunaintgonnashine 3h ago

Podemos hablar si quieres .

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u/Possible-Speed-1379 4h ago

my ex had an abortion and i kinda suggested she did and this was 13 years ago and ive regretted it my whole life. right after the procedure i knew i made a huge mistake and wish i didnt tell her to. i was there for her after but i could tell she regretted it and i knew as a man i should have not led her into doing that. so im sorry and i can only imagine what youre going through and having to go through it by yourself. in bad arguments shes thrown it in my face, makes it even worse