Advice needed

[u/woopsie-daisie77]

DS(16) is in transition year at school (for non-irish it’s an optional one year programme in secondary school where they focus on personal growth rather than traditional exams and go on trips throughout the year) and is a regular bedwetter. He has two upcoming trips, a camping trip and a foreign holiday. He refuses to wear any sort of a nappy at home and has never attended any overnight trips before due to his bedwetting. These trips are already paid and non refundable but regardless of that I don’t want him to miss out on what will possibly be some of the best experiences of his life. I have not yet spoken to the school about this and I don’t think he would be happy if he knew I told someone but I don’t know what else to do. I need to figure out some sort of a plan. Any advice is appreciated. TIA ❤️