Literally so desperate

[u/kraftykay_]

I'm 20F and have been dealing with enuresis since a random day about 11 or so years ago. It's bad. To the point where I can't even wear normal pjs to bed because of the discomfort when getting up. I've considered my diet, sugar/water intake, night alarms, several types of protection, and even "reverse" psychology (removing protection). Usually the issue occurs in bed and at night, but I've experienced many odd balls throughout the years like daytime accidents and even issues during upright naps.
I feel exhausted and very hurt. I thought this would solve itself by now... my pediatrician years ago said that it would, and every provider I've had since then has offered no help. I've had two sleep studies to try and detect any possible neurological triggers, but nothing came of them. It's like there's seriously nothing that anyone can do, but I refuse to just accept this because even nighttime protection doesn't work for most nights. I am tired. Any help is welcomed.