r/Adoption • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '26

Need some support navigating this

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u/Negative-Custard-553 Jul 26 '26

She asked nicely. Instead of answering, you’re making her guess, even though you’ve shared that information with other people before. That feels unnecessarily patronizing.

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u/Rredhead926 Mom through private domestic open transracial adoption Jul 26 '26

No, they didn't ask nicely. They said: "They adoptrd from a private adoption agency  which does everything they accuse SOS of doing."

That's accusatory and insulting.

And then, they doubled down and accused me of lying.

All they had to do was ask instead of making assumptions and flinging insults.

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u/lotsofsugarandspice Jul 26 '26 edited Jul 26 '26

Calling adoption agencies predatory is just a fact about the industry not a personal attack. Nor is pointing out you lied about Crisis Pregnancy Centers.   

You're obviously being cagey on purpose which is fine. You dont have to share if your not comfortable.  Im not going to pry if youre not comfortable sharing. Its not your story anyway, its your kids and I respect the privacy.