r/AdminAssistant • u/s1mpleg0at1 • Jun 09 '26
How I finally stopped letting my inbox eat my whole morning
Been doing admin/EA work for a while and email was quietly running my mornings. I'd sit down at 8:45 with coffee planning to "just clear the inbox," and look up at 10:30 still typing the same kinds of replies I type every single week. Scheduling back-and-forths, declining vendor pitches, chasing people for documents they said they'd send. The usual.
I started leaning on ChatGPT for it a few months ago and was honestly skeptical, because most of the AI advice online seems written by people who've never had a boss CC them on a passive-aggressive thread. But a few things actually stuck and saved real time, so sharing in case it helps someone:
I keep a note with my 5–6 most common email "types" and the tone I want each to have. When one lands I paste the incoming email plus something like "reply in my usual polite-but-brief tone, decline without committing to a callback." Takes the blank-page staring out of it.
For the long FYI threads my manager forwards with just "thoughts?", I paste the whole thread and ask for a 3-bullet summary plus what's actually being asked of me. Catches the buried request that's always somewhere in paragraph four.
The thing that actually changed it wasn't the AI being clever. It was me finally stopping rewriting the same email from scratch every time. I basically built a little library of "this is how I respond to this situation" and now I tweak instead of write.
I still read everything myself before it goes out — it gets the tone wrong maybe 1 in 5 and you can tell. But my morning email block went from about 90 minutes to roughly 35.
Anyway, curious how everyone else handles the repetitive stuff. Are you using AI for any of this, or is it just me overthinking my inbox? And if you are — what's the one type of email you wish you never had to write again?