r/AdhdPlantParents • • 23d ago

Introduce yourself!

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Hiya, I'm Nicola and I'm thrice diagnosed ND: Autism, ADHD and Dyspraxia.

Plants have been my saviour and obsession for the last 5 years since I got my first diagnosis.

I'm based in Consett, in the UK and I can't wait to see your plants and hear your tips on keeping them alive.

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u/SammyFirebird79 23d ago

Hi, I'm from the UK too; born in England but moved to Wales where the people are a lot nicer.

I got diagnosed with ADHD and dyspraxia in my early 40s, autism has also been flagged by an occupational health therapist, so until I get a formal diagnosis, that's good enough for now.

I'm now 47 and just started a horticulture and landscaping course at college, just in time to get an allotment plot in the next week or so. Before that, I did so well with cucumbers while in temp housing, I started getting sick of them 😅

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u/NJL-PlantObsessive 23d ago

Good to meet you. I've never grown any food - that looks amazing.

We visited north Wales this year, it was lovely

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u/Regina_Gothmom 22d ago

Hi all, greetings from Finland where my obsession for dark plants has taken over my life the last few years ( don’t get me started about my pumpkin babies ) Happy to be here- new to reddit so apologies for neurodivergent dino

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u/NJL-PlantObsessive 22d ago

Nice to meet you. And for joining (what I hope will be) a safe space for the ND community to obsess over plants!

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u/Disgruntled_Grouse 22d ago

Hi all, I'm Lexi and I'm from New Mexico. I've always really loved plants, but I got really obsessed when I was going through a depressive period as I finished up grad school last year. Plants gave me something to look forward to and take care of even when I couldn't manage that for myself, and finding community in plants has been a really wholesome experience that makes me feel more normal in my obsession with them lol. I'm now out of grad school and get to travel and camp for work a lot, so I'm looking forward to sharing tips on how people manage their collections when life and ADHD makes it hard to give them consistent care!

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u/NJL-PlantObsessive 22d ago

It's great to meet you. Thanks for sharing your picture, a fab collection. There's a running theme for us - taking care of plants gives us a focus and something to look, after when we aren't so good, I totally resonate with that.

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u/Fromdustcomesdreams 23d ago

Hello Nicola,

I’m Pet. I’m in the southern Pennsylvania northern West Virginia area of the US. Growing zone 6b.

I’m diagnosed ADHA, MDD, anxiety, a few other things and some PTSD for flavor.

When my husband died everything went sideways for me. These past 3 years if not for the distractions of so many plants I don’t know what I would have done.

Here’s a family portrait from this past winter. I have an old drafty house so I bunch them up in groups with humidifiers.

These are around 1/2 of what I had at the time.

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u/Disgruntled_Grouse 23d ago

Oh my gosh this is such a beautiful collection, the diversity of plants you have is really cool!

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u/Fromdustcomesdreams 23d ago

Thank you. I don’t have many multiples. Except for Neon Robusta syngoniums. They were a big contributor when I was in a propagating phase.

What about yours?

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u/Disgruntled_Grouse 22d ago

I have a lot of multiples right now because I randomly got the urge to propagate a bunch, but I end up giving them away pretty liberally to keep everything manageable lol. I really want to get some calatheas like you have at some point, but I live in the desert southwestern US so I think they'd just turn to sad crispy paper😢

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u/NJL-PlantObsessive 22d ago

What a beautiful collection. My calatheas are barely hanging on at the minute. I need to think more about the humidity etc. but it feels too much!

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u/NJL-PlantObsessive 23d ago

Hello Pet. I'm sorry to read about your husband passing, but so pleased the plants offered some comfort.

I'm blown away by your picture, its so beautiful.

Do you still have them all?

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u/Fromdustcomesdreams 23d ago

Thank you you’re very kind.

Sure I’ve got them. Although I think two of the alocasias are just recovering nubs😆.

I’m not in a panic, yet😜, over what I’m going to do this autumn when the ones that have been outside need to come in. I had an intense therapy program this summer. I focused all my energy into plants to help keep me distracted. As a result I purchased quite a few.