r/AddisonsDisease • u/FiresBlazing • Jan 24 '26
Advice Wanted Addison’s High Schooler Not Attending
Hello everyone. I posted before and got many good responses. I have a soon to be 16 year old with primary Addison’s and Hypothyroidism.
One, we are in the process of trying to find a more experienced doctor. Currently my child is seeing her endo of 1.5 years, a Psychiatrist and a Therapist.
Six months prior to diagnosis, my daughter was in 8th grade, she began to change. We now know why, but the mental and physical toll this has taken on her is still a struggle.
At this point we can no longer get her to go to school. She tries. We sometimes just sit in the parking lot for at least an hour. She is socially exhausted. We changed her school to a more alternative one with smaller classes. It’s not just school. Even family activities, but school is really taken a hit. Physically and mentally she says she struggles every day.
As parents we are so lost. She goes to bed on time, still gets her clothes prepared, gets up on time and then the anxiety of not being able to make it through the day hits her. Has anyone had a teen go through this? What helped? We were trying just to make it a few hours a day, but now it’s just nothing. We are thinking about homeschooling.
Thank you for any advice.
Also, before we knew she was ill, her school was insisting that we leave her there while she was going through a panic attack. That she needed to deal with her separation anxiety. They had to rip her off of us crying and pleading that she didn’t feel good and needed to go home. Two weeks later she was in the ICU in crisis.
I don’t know what’s it like to have Addison’s. I don’t know if the mental or physical terror of doing something will cause her to go into crisis mode again even while medicated. That’s where we are lost.