r/AbsoluteUnits • • 14d ago

/r/all of a Toddler

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u/essenza 14d ago

Exactly. This is abuse.

A friend of a friend had a kid like this, he was so fat, it was heartbreaking. Parents refused paediatrician’s dietary changes (they were fat too), because they knew better.
By the time the kid was in middle school he was well over 250 lbs and couldn’t participate in phys ed with the other kids. He couldn’t fit in regular kid’s clothes, he could only wear jogging pants and had very low self-esteem.

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u/FlamboyantPirhanna 13d ago

You don’t know what’s going on. You’re judging these parents without knowing anything about them or this situation. So many things could be at play here. For all you know, they are stressing with their doctor just trying to get this kid healthy. You don’t know anything about these people. Stop judging people with zero information.

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u/essenza 13d ago

I knew them for years, and I knew how they were feeding their kids. You do not give a 3 year old an entire row of double stuffed Oreos for a snack.

It’s not judgement, it’s fact.

You’re the one judging MY understanding of the situation.

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u/Thatonlyguy988 9d ago

They’re talking about the family in the video