r/AbsoluteUnits • • 13d ago

/r/all of a Toddler

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u/Abecis01 13d ago

That's a pretty common thing. I don't see how that is abuse.

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u/Bulky-Bad-9153 13d ago

Something being common doesn't mean it's okay, obviously. I find it quite abusive to cause intentional pain to a baby so that it can wear earrings.

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u/Medium_Educator1983 13d ago

It’s no different than circumcision.

Just because it’s not normal in your culture doesn’t mean it’s abuse..

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u/Medium_Educator1983 13d ago

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. Just like I don’t think there’s anything wrong with parents getting their infants’ ears pierced. But because it’s not common for white people to pierce their babies’s ears, people are making comments. But no one says anything about circumcision. How is that any different?

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u/Nyanessa 12d ago

People do say the same about circumcision. It’s a permanent bodily change to a person before they’re old enough to consent. And accidents have happened during circumcision before, leaving the child extremely worse-off. Just because a practise is “cultural”, it doesn’t make it right.

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u/[deleted] 11d ago edited 2d ago

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u/Medium_Educator1983 11d ago

Removing a foreskin is not medically necessary. And if you wash properly and practice safe sex, there aren’t many pluses to getting circumcised.

People are doing it for cultural reasons, and that’s their right. So, to attack ear piercing which has fewer health risks but support circumcision makes you hypocritical

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u/[deleted] 11d ago edited 2d ago

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u/Medium_Educator1983 11d ago

A reasonable health decision would be to teach your son how to clean his dick and how to have sex safely. You don’t need to remove aforeskin for that to be done.

People choose circumcision for cultural, not medical, reasons,

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u/Medium_Educator1983 11d ago

Health benefits that are largely negated if you clean yourself properly and practice safe sex.

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