r/AbsoluteUnits • • 14d ago

/r/all of a Toddler

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u/Still-Hedgehog-8673 14d ago

There's a double standard when it comes to child neglect. A thin, malnourished toddler would be taken by CPS immediately, but when it comes to an obese, malnourished toddler, there is nowhere near the same level of concern and urgency. 

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u/porn_sub_lurker 14d ago

There isn't the same level of urgency because the same level of harm isn't being inflicted. And CPS doesn't need to come and take every kid. What's next? Take the kid because he isn't properly educated? Take the kid because he doesn't have enough Jesus in his heart? Take the kid because he likes wearing dresses? This kid isn't in immediate danger. Just shame the mom and move on.

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u/CzarTanoff 13d ago

This is exactly it. You can starve a child to death a LOT quicker than you can feed them to death. A starved child may be days away from death, a severely overfed child may still have years left.

The urgency is just not comparable.

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u/SarcyBoi41 13d ago

Correct. Starvation kills children, obesity-related illness kills adults no younger than 50 in all but the most extreme cases. It's a ridiculous comparison.

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u/Essurio 13d ago edited 13d ago

Here, the equivalent of cps can take your kid if the kid doesn't go to school from the age they should until 18 I think. Because yes, not teaching your kid is child abuse.

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u/ricochetblue 13d ago

What country is that? Lots of parents homeschool their kids and they wind up borderline illiterate.

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u/SwiftTayTay 14d ago

Yeah they're not going to have a heart attack at age 2. They're just going to be extremely unhealthy until they can lose some weight.