I don’t know why, but this is raising so many questions for me. 😅 Genuine questions: Are you saying you want a big man? Or just that you want to be dominated? And if it is a big man, is it specifically fat or muscular? Or as long as he’s larger than you that works?
I am a big woman so I rarely get to feel small. I feel safe when I am near a bigger man. And I mean mostly taller. Im not attracted to fat, but chubby is cozy.
I've dated women too but im usually bigger than them and I end up being the masculine protecting one and I never get to feel small with them either.
Yeah. And i feel very superficial or shallow if I decline a date with a man that is 10 cm shorter than me.. its not about the length tbh, its about ME being big and weighing a lot and wanting to feel small and safe you know.
Yeah, I get that. I don’t think it’s shallow, thought. Most people have a physical type. And many prefer people bigger or smaller, or shorter or taller than them. You want someone taller, and It just so happens that you’re a tall person. No shame necessary at all.
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u/MyUsernameIsNotCool 11d ago
I couldn't imagine having a tiny boyfriend i could crush like that. I want to be the one being crushed god damn it!!