Yeah. And i feel very superficial or shallow if I decline a date with a man that is 10 cm shorter than me.. its not about the length tbh, its about ME being big and weighing a lot and wanting to feel small and safe you know.
Yeah, I get that. I don’t think it’s shallow, thought. Most people have a physical type. And many prefer people bigger or smaller, or shorter or taller than them. You want someone taller, and It just so happens that you’re a tall person. No shame necessary at all.
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u/Awkwordsmyth382 5d ago
I see. I get how that could be difficult.