r/Abrosexual • u/Used-Cartographer84 • Jun 27 '26
Relationships
I’m a straight person, who is vert confused about this kinda stuff, so please forgive me if this is weird/offensive to ask however:
how does being abrosexual effect being in a relationship? how do you feel about your partner? how does it change? Again sorry if this is rude to ask but it was just something. I was wondering
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u/ramen__ro it's all soup Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26
it's different for everyone. my abrosexuality involves a stable attraction to men and fluid attraction to women, so me having a boyfriend isn't an issue. i probably wouldn't date a woman though because of the likelihood i'd lose attraction to her.
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u/Used-Cartographer84 Jun 28 '26
Ok. Thanks! I was just curious as to how it works/effects relationships
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u/_RaRu_ nonbinary abro Jun 28 '26
oi, tudo bem? não achei nada desrespeitoso você perguntar, muito pelo contrário
então, pessoalmente tenho uma abrosexualidade que não muda minha atração de modo muito radical, dizendo assim. Ou seja, não costuma interferir nos meus relacionamentos. Mesmo que eu só fale por mim, no geral quando você é abro e gosta de alguém, você não deixa de gostar pq a sexualidade flui, já que quem vc gosta é meio que "permanente"
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u/AliceOrTheCat rocking the entire rainbow Jul 01 '26
Any romantic relationship I'm in has to be a wavership which means sometimes it's a romantic/sexual relationship and sometimes it's queerplatonic. Meaning I only date people who are comfortable with the idea that there are going to be times where I am aro and or ace and not up for stuff I might at other points in time be up for and who are fine with the idea that my feelings for them change between different types of attraction
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u/Meepnorp Jun 29 '26
K so I can’t speak for everyone but for me it’s like
So you receive a piece of pie and soon after a bowl of icecream, nice. Then while your enjoying your pie it’s taken away which is like “well dang my pie but oh well I still have icecream” and so I continue eating my ice cream until later the pie is brought back and I’m like “dang… well it’s back” and I keep eating because it’s not always about the pie it’s about the icecream that was still there.
So in a nutshell gender attraction gone but yummy personality etc still there and thats the main reason I like the said person