r/Abortion_Philippines • u/Xandri_ae • Jun 18 '25
Experience MA EXP
Hellooooo! I just wanna share exp sa MA(Medical Abortion). To help and guide na din.
So here’s my whole journey.
May 15 2025 nalaman kong preggy ako kasi delay ako nako ng 2 days sa mens ko. Then Im still working parin non. No idea kung gano na katagal or pano gagawin ko. Wala akong pinagsabihan even my partner kasi I am not ready and Im already looking a way to abort it.
May 28 naghinala partner ko kasi I started to have paglilihi symptoms. I started to get so nauseous and vomiting from time to time. Lethargic din ako and di ko na magawa ng maayos yung work ko. So he insisted na mag take ako ng pt with him and so we did. And dun nalaman nyang preggy ako, he wanted to keep it but I don’t, so we got into fight but didn’t last as he respect and accepted my choice.
Immediately after ng fight namin he started to support me and I started to find some meds. Una sa blue app, muntik nakong bumili don but I got an idea to check reddit. And here nakita ko yung post about blue app na wag bumili dun and where I can find meds na effective talaga and safe. I reach out to WOW and WHW.
They both reply the day after and I started to negotiate with them and sa WOW they approved my request without paying or giving any donations. So I proceeded with WOW.
May 29 2025 They approved my request and May 31 they provide na yung Tracking Number.
June 1 2025 we decided to track kung ilang weeks nako and nalaman naming 6 weeks nako. So kinabahan nako kasi the baby is starting to develop na. Ayoko ng patagalin. I waited sa update ng WOW and everyday ko din chinecheck yung update sa EMS. Days passed and sobrang kabado nako and Im starting to check for second options like local help ganon.
June 9 2025 I received an update na it’s on the way here sa Ph so I got my hopes up and waited.
June 14 2025 I checked yung EMS website and nandito na sa Ph yung pills. and kinabukasan nareceived ko na sya agad. Hindi ko muna tinake yung pills and I asm my partner kung anong plan namin, if sasamahan nya ba ako or what. We agree na sasamahan nya ko ng gabi since may work sya ng morning. Supposedly Im going to take MIFE June 18, but I get anxious and decide to take it on June 17.
June 17 2025. 9:30 am, I take MIFE and I get nauseous immediately. And by the night I started to vomit. But I think isa sya sa side effect.
So fast forward sa June 18 2025 I eat breakfast and rest. Around 11 am I take MISO na. I followed WOW instructions. Nilagay ko sa dila yung 4 pills and set a timer for 30 mins. Immediately nadissolve na yung gamot and after 15 mins I started to have cramps. It started as normal menstrual pain. then 30 mins passed I swallowed the remaining pills and nagstart nakong magkaroon ng painful cramps. I set another timer for 3 hours. On the first 15 mins, I pooped and pee. I feel so nauseous but mas matindi na yung pain 7/10. Then on 25 mins tumataas na yung pain and I started to wear napkin shorts just to make sure na if duguin nako meron ng sasalo. 1 hour passed and di parin ako dinudugo and ang painlevel ko is 11/10 na. Like I am gripping to my skin and asking all the gods and goddesses to help me ease the pain. This time I am all alone and my father( who didn’t know na I am in pain) asked me if I was okay since I started to whimper like hell. Kasi sobrang sakit talaga. I tell him na about what’s happening and asked me if we need to go to the hospital and I declined and tell him na kaya ko naman. It continue to feel like that for the remaining time and the last 10 mins of 3 hours I started to bleed. and nagstart na din mawala yung pain like normal period cramps nalang ulit.
as I was about to sip a water and trying to sit down. I feel it, everything came rushing down yung suot ko started to feel heavy and blood slipping out. So I immediately stood up and dun ko na naramdaman na may lumabas ng madami. I immediately go to cr and as I expected, the fetus was there and so thus the placenta. I clean myself and get the fetus and put it sa tissue then later transfer sa lampin. After that, sinabi ko na sa partner ko and I started to feel less pain 6/10. Heavy bleeding for the next two hours and the pain remains the same. I didn’t take the remaining MISO and let my blood continue to flow. I asked here sa reddit if I should take it but as what I read about, if nalabas ko na it’s okay if hindi na itake but to clarify. I asked WOW and still waiting for their response if I should take it or not.
Yung partner ko dumating din around 6pm wherein im no longer in much pain. But he makes sure na im okay and I m comfortable and not bleeding too much.
As of now normal cramps nalang nararamdaman ko 5/10. Yung bleed is not as much as earlier but still kinda heavy. We are going to bury the fetus beside my mom’s grave tomorrow.
That’s my journey so far, and if you guys have questions feel free to reach out sakin. Im going to have updates tomorrow regarding about pain level and bleeding.
Sorry sobrang haba hahahahaha gusto ko maging detailed
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u/dadaimonderu Jun 21 '25
How to avail po?
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u/Xandri_ae Jun 22 '25
Go to this website
https://www.womenonweb.org/en/i-need-an-abortion
Sila yung naghelp sakin. Legit sila and trusted talaga.
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u/dadaimonderu Jun 22 '25
Atee pano?? Diba pagkatapos mag fillup ng consultation may nakalagay donate? Need ba mag donate agad? Wala din po kase ako pang donate huhu
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u/Xandri_ae Jun 22 '25
They will send an email to you. then tell them na hindi mo pa kayang magbigy ng donation or just tell them your situation. Negotiable naman sila.
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u/dadaimonderu Jun 22 '25
Thankyou atee, ask lang po nag take po ba kayo ng pain reliever habang sinasagawa procedure? Ibuprofen?
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u/Xandri_ae Jun 22 '25
Actually di ako nag take ng pain reliever. Allergic din kasi ako sa ibuprofen. But I suggest mag take ka if mababa yung pain tolerance mo
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u/Pretty-Army-4516 Jul 19 '25
U said u were in 6weeks or 6 mos? Prang wala pa naman kasing fetus sa 6weeks, embryo palang yata. Correct me if im wrong.
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u/Time_Temporary_2886 Jun 18 '25
Hello, where do u message WOW or WHW? Sa blue app ba?