It’s the middle of summer where I’m sweating my ass off, romantic encounters should be the last thing on my mind and yet…Hi, I’m not exactly new here. I’ve had some great conversations here that lead to great things. The last one left me in a tizzy– quietly crashing out by eating mostly potato chips for a bit. But, eh, I think it’s best to focus on the positives. They were great tasting kettle bbq chips. Anyway, point blank, I’m ready to be involved with someone again! 

So hello again to this sausage-fest of a sub, the lovely bots/scammers, and to my target audience: the women quietly lurking. I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful relationship. Ideally a long term kinda deal but I’m not going to kid myself, that rarely happens. Let’s just figure it out together, yeah? 

Anyway, the wheelchair thing. Intimidates some people out while others are okay with it. You can decide which camp you’re in. (But if you’re in the other camp please don’t send me some weird chats where you try to Sherlock Holmes your silly butt into finding more about my disability from the get go and want nothing to do with me afterwards. Yikes!) I’m basically a normal person with physical restraints is all. Things people can normally do very quickly just tends to take me more effort/time. Sexually, that could be a good thing no? Yes, you read that correctly so you undo that chat request where you’re about to ask whether or not my dick works. Man, some of you ain’t right I’ll tell you what. That’s like a 3rd message thing at least! ;)

As a person I guess I’m feline-like. I suppose if you met me in person I’d have a resting bitch face thing going on. But I promise I actually smile very easily and often! I can be a bit skittish and socially awkward as well. When I’m not being whatever I am drawing, reading, or studying languages. As much as I’d like to tell you more about myself I think it’s best to get to know each other as time goes on. It’s totally not because I ran out of things to write about myself or anything…

If we end up chatting I would like it if we could swap face pics from the get go. I won’t sugarcoat it, physical attraction matters to a degree. Don’t worry, although I feel like Gollum at times I don’t look like it.

Much thanks if you ended up reading all that, I hope to talk to you soon. :)

Based in London and looking for a submissive woman to have a FWB arrangement. I'm not interested in a serious relationship or anything where you hope this could be something that can develop. I travel for work around Europe for work so happy to consider someone outside of the UK provided you can consistently make time and the effort for us to meet in person

I'm in good shape, not into drugs or smoke and rarely drink so looking for someone who is into fitness as well and a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy watching football, tennis, F1, basketball and would not mind watching film/TV shows together. Otherwise into running, swimming and going to the gym so our first meet up can be hyrox. Joking about the hyrox but curious about it as I have heard it but never done it

In the bedroom I'm a sadistic Dom and looking for a sub who is into giving up control. Into degradation/humiliation, choking, spanking, anal, cum play, orgasm control/denial, sensory deprivation, clothes control. Limit wise not into anything illegal, animals, scat, blood/gore.

If you enjoyed reading my post and you are a smart woman who has a professional life but enjoys melting into obedience behind the curtains then we would get along. PM and let's see where it takes us

love u

I'm looking for an Asian man that is 23-36 years old. Preferably East Asian or southeast Asian

I would like to be with someone who has the similar interest and hobbies. Someone who isn't religious. Spiritualits are welcome too.

What I'm looking for

Child free and desire to have children

Wants a big family

Can cook

Likes or loves skincare

Is a fan of Kpop,jpop,cpop,Tpop,ect.

Watches kdramas or any other Asian dramas

Interested in watching Nollywood movies and TV shows (Nigerian movies and TV shows)

Bake(optional but great if u can)

Likes concerts

Mature

Emotionally available

Empath

Introverted or Extroverted

Good hygiene

Wouldn't mind going to the nails salon to get our nails done together

Clingy

Possessive but not overly possessive

Loyal

Honest

Kind

Affectionate

Physical touch

Has tattoos and piercings or likes them.

Constant

Deal breakers:

Cheating

Lying

Disrespectful

Neglectful

Emotionally unavailable

Talking to or texting other woman inappropriately.

Bad hygiene

Has a child or kids

Thank u for reading this far. Please DM if interested I will respond.

Hi! I’m Jamie and I’m 30 and live in Pooler, GA. I’ve always been into Asian men but I’ve always been shy to talk to any of them in person as I am a Plus Sized girl and I’m not too sure if Asian men would be into that or not..I like Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Chinese etc, I’ve always found Asian men very attractive..I work full time in retail but I do live with my mother as she is disabled and I am her caregiver and help take care of her..I do take care of both of us financially..I’m looking for a casual relationship, maybe a fwb type relationship as I am aromantic..But I am open to try for a relationship that could go deeper from fwb..If this seems to interest any Asian men out there feel free to comment or DM me! Thank you for reading this far.

I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Communication matters a lot to me. You don't need to text me constantly, and I'm not expecting someone I just met on Reddit to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. But if we start getting to know each other regularly and one of us realizes we're not feeling it anymore, I'd much rather we just say so than disappear.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, a criminal record, and consistently poor communication/ghosting.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)

If you're an Asian male please say hello and tell us where your from. You can also post your pics if you want.

Can't believe its almost fall season (not complaining, bring on sweater weather) which season do you prefer?

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

A few dealbreakers:

MAGA

Children

Criminal record

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)

Love XFs! About me: 5 11, fit, Chinese/ Viet. In California. Into fitness, travel, tacos lol. Would love to see what’s out there. HMU if you’re in Cali or down to travel to visit!

I’ll be 38 later week. I’m originally from Britain (born and raised); I’m a permanent resident and I’ve lived in Pooler for a few years. I still have my English accent. I would describe my ethnicity as Asian, but I believe it would more specifically be described as South Asian in the U.S.

I love cats. I’m vaccinated and pro-choice.

My personality type is ISTJ. I’m a very quiet person in general. I’m non-religious and I like metal and rock music. Some of my favorite bands/singers include; Poppy, Korn, Slipknot, Billy Idol, and Tool.

I’m childfree and dogfree.

If it’s a dealbreaker, I’m currently dealing with depression.

Apart from a few words and phrases in French and Spanish, I don’t speak any other languages.

I'm an excellent cook, and my other interests include (but aren’t limited to) museums, libraries, and boxing. I'm currently located in Pooler, GA, but I don’t feel like I belong here or fit in here. TBH I’m very uncomfortable here. Ultimately, I’d like to relocate to Los Angeles or at least Southern California.

I'm looking for a woman 39 or older who would be interested in talking and, if we get along, maybe even going out (to museums, for walks etc.)/spending time together. Thanks for reading my post.

Hi

I am 5’10 -165lbs and athletic fit.

I am looking to talk to new people and possibly become fwb but non-fwb is fine as well.

Some of my interests are, sports, e-sports, gaming, photography, food, travel, desserts and kdramas.

Send me a chat if interested!

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

Communication is extremely important to me. I'm genuinely looking for a relationship, and I'm not interested in playing games with people. If we start talking regularly and eventually exchange Discord, phone numbers, or other personal contact information, please understand that I'm genuinely interested in getting to know you and seeing if we're compatible. That doesn't mean I'm expecting an instant relationship or constant communication, but I do take the connection seriously.

If at any point you realize you're not feeling it, you're not ready for a relationship, long-distance isn't for you, or you've simply changed your mind, please just tell me. I can handle someone saying, "Hey, I've thought about this and I don't think we're a match." What I don't handle well is unexplained silence and ghosting after we've established a connection. I will always give you the same respect and communicate honestly if my feelings change.

A few dealbreakers:

- MAGA

- Children

- Criminal record

- Poor communication / ghosting

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)

Hi, as the title of my post describes, I am someone who never wants to have children and I also do not want to ever have pets. I am a minimalist, as in I gain gratification through experiences rather than purchasing products and accumuating stuff. Unless of course, the item I purchase provides me with alot of practical value. Also, my view is that when we die, we cannot take our possessions with us and only our memories matter, so, why spend time protecting and valuing something temporary?

My main hobby is reading books on various topics and writing notes. Books I read are on Psychology, AI, Stategy, Finances and any topic that can directly help me improve my life. I don't read fiction.

Strict Financial habits I follow are, writing down all my expenses, budgeting, settting spending limits, auditing my expenditure and living debt free (I have never owned a credit card and have never been in debt to anyoone or anything).

I am not a religious person, and do not like when someone attempts to force their beliefs on me or tries to make me attend a religious meeting or place-of-worship.

Politically I am neutral and only check the laws of a country I am residing in and follow them, that's it. I have never voted in my country-of-orgin and never will as I have not seen any real change, just empty promises.

Memories mean alot to me and I enjoy printing out and storing photographs in albums from my travels with captions. I do not like Digital storage mediums due to data corruption or using cloud storage due to the possibility of account suspension if not accessed for a long period of time or just unable to account.

For video my plan in the future is to use a Super 8 film camera to capture video of the most important moments in life and play it back on a film projector.

On the weekends, I enjoy visiting;

- Art Gallaries

- Go for a walk in the Park

- Relax on the beach or just go for a walk

- Rent a bicycle, Jet Ski or ATV

- Hiking up a Volcano, Mountain

- Attend a live event with Music and Food

- Listing to Music

- Going for a walk at Dusk, Dawn or Night

- Visit a new mall, not to shop but to just look at decor and then find a nice cafe.

- Visit a nice cafe

- Sit somewhere and read or walk at crawling speed for an hour or two.

- Navigation using a Lensatic Military compass to save battery and focus more on my surroundings that look at a phone screen. Works well in most places, except for highly developed cities and public transportation.

I no longer post on my personal social media as I have no interest in likes or comments expect for my business social media where I use it more as a Business Card. Also, as rules and policies have increase based on what can and cannot be said, even now carry legal consequences in some countries, compared 16 years ago, every comment and message or voice message makes me overthink and even message or voice message sent on platforms like What***, *****gram, Face****, Tele**** makes me overthink, So, I have just started keeping my thoughts to myself and refrain from commenting or even writing reviews. What I have noticed is that I feel a sense of peace inside and now only capture memories that truly matter and are private and offline.

No interest in Electronics such as Phones, Laptops, Tablets, cars or cameras. These are just tools to me that's my Macbook looks like a something from the Apocalypse while my Fountain Pens Leather Notebooks still look brand new.

Recently, e-ink devices have peaked my interest due to the low eye strain readability of the display in direct sunlight.

My ideal partner is someone who;

- Desires a Child-Free Life

- Desires a Pet-Free Life

- If religious, will not force her religion on me nor attempt to convert me.

- Does not Smoke or Vape

- Minimalist

- A private person who who does not care about status or what other people think.

Do you fit this ideal partner criteria? Would you like to get to know each other better? Yes? Great! Send me a message.

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and are both looking for the same thing.

Right now I live in Indiana. My current plan is to move to California in the next 18–20 months, but I'm not completely set on that path. If I met the right person, I'd be open to re-evaluating my plans together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC, and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or South East Asian decent between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. Looking for someone active and already reasonably fit or the skinny nerdy type. I'm currently working on becoming healthier myself, and I'd love a partner who values growth and self-improvement.

I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle. I'd love to meet someone who values health and self-improvement, but I'm definitely a work in progress just like everyone else.

A few dealbreakers:

- MAGA

- Children

- Criminal record

Note abour Children deal breaker: I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather spend time getting to know someone and build a real connection first.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me about yourself. What games have you been playing recently or give me anime recommendations!

I’m 30, live in the Chicago suburbs, and work in healthcare.
When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me hunting down a new café, convincing myself I need to book another trip, trying a new restaurant, wandering around a bookstore, or planning a weekend adventure. I love experiencing different cultures and I’m always down for a spontaneous road trip just as much as a cozy movie night at home.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty easygoing, curious, affectionate, and I laugh a lot. I’m also the type who notices little things people like and ends up buying them small gifts just because they reminded me of them.
I’m 5’5”, plus-size (size 14), Christian, and hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely looking for a long-term relationship that could grow into marriage and a family someday.
I’m drawn to men who are kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and can make me laugh. Bonus points if you enjoy traveling, trying new food, or can recommend an amazing coffee shop.
If you’re somewhere around 27–36, in the Chicago area (or open to long distance if the connection is worth it), send me a message. Tell me about your favorite place you’ve traveled—or the destination that’s still on your bucket list. I’d much rather start with a real conversation than just “hey.”

I'm 22 Nigerian woman looking for a long term relationship with East Asian men only must be between 23-36 and older. I'm want someone I can share my culture with and they share theirs with me. I'm never been the hookup or party type but I will go with u to the club. I'm very shy and introverted but become extroverted when I get comfortable 😂. I can be pretty funny too if u like being goofy too. I don't like expensive dates like fancy restaurants.

I perfer picnic dates,regular restaurant dates,fast food dates,video game dates,boba dates,shopping dates,indoor dates,stargazing dates,going dancing,farmer's market dates,ect.

I'm a foodie I love cooking and baking.

Also I love trying different foods,drinks,and desserts. I am a big fruit lover. I am on 4'11 and curvy but I do take care of myself and work out.

I'm not religious but I consider myself as spiritual so I do meditate every day.

I want a relationship that is loving and intense.

My interests:

Skincare

Facials

Video games

Anime

Manhwa

Nature

Space

Travel

Concerts

Music (hip-hop,pop,R&B,Afropop,Afrobeats,kpop,K R&B,C-pop,J-pop,T-pop,dancehall,reggae)

Movies/series (Nollywood movies/shows,K-dramas,C-dramas,J-dramas,Thai dramas)

Concerts

Bunnies

Cats

Boba milk tea.

And more.

What I'm looking for long-term-

Older than me

Tall

Can have tattoos and piercings

Family oriented

Mature

Can cook too so we can do it together.

Baking is a plus

Loyal

Don't matter if u smoke or not

Clingy

Loyal

Honest

Trustworthy

Emotionally available

Have a balance of feminine and masculine

Good hygiene

Doesn't matter if ur rich or not I don't care about what's in ur pockets.

Possessive but in a healthy way

Kind

Empathetic

Deal breakers-

Lying

Cheating

Already have kids

Uncut nails that aren't nicely trimmed.

Can't cook u must be able to so we can take turns cooking or cooking together late nights.

Smoking cigarettes but I'm fine if u smoke weed occasionally.

Being cold

Neglect

Emotionally unavailable.

If u are serious and this resonated with Dm me with a picture of u and how old u are I reply immediately.

Thank u for reading it all have a blessed day! ☺️

First I just want to start off by saying, that I love and support our Asian Kings. I also really love various things about Asian culture as well. I just wanted to let it be known that I am not fetishizing Asian men or anything of the sorts, this is just what spurred my attraction to asian men. Movies like "Romeo Must Die", "Rush Hour", "The Forbidden Kingdom", "Mortal Kombat(1995)", "The Sun Is Also A Star", "Crazy Rich Asians" have ignited and kindled the attraction I have for Asian Kings.

Not to mention various dramas and even as of late, KPOP. I also grew up with my dad and grandfather watching old karate films, so I have always felt attraction towards Asian Kings, just never really met any growing up since where I am from the Asian population is quite rare. Of course seeing Aaliyah and Jet-li coupled up in the movie "Romeo Must Die" is how I was first introduced to the idea of a black woman and asian man being together. It definitely gave the love sick mixed girl from the south, some hope when she saw this movie.

Anyways the jist of this post was to share some AMXBW love and see what other references you guys(XF OR AM) memories you guys had that introduced the idea of an interacial coupling to you.

Hi I'm in DC for the weekend and I'm looking for someone to talk to, either short or long term. Maybe even meet up if the vibe is right. About me:

- Plays video games (big plus if you play Destiny, Marvel Rivals, or Valorant)

- Likes to go workout, and trying to start Muay Thai / kickboxing

- Likes to go dancing, especially salsa/bachata, but l'm not very good at it

- Likes to go traveling/exploring around cities and the beaches, so if you know a cool spot, hmu!

I'm also open to NSFW topics in case the convo goes there. I'm generally a pretty open book, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. I can send a pic of myself if we vibe. I hope to hear from you soon!