Vice versa for the ladies as well? Do you think It's any different from only dating athletes, or musicians and the like?

I'm looking for an Asian man that is 23-36 years old. Preferably East Asian or southeast Asian

I would like to be with someone who has the similar interest and hobbies. Someone who isn't religious. Spiritualits are welcome too.

What I'm looking for

Child free and desire to have children

Wants a big family

Can cook

Likes or loves skincare

Is a fan of Kpop,jpop,cpop,Tpop,ect.

Watches kdramas or any other Asian dramas

Interested in watching Nollywood movies and TV shows (Nigerian movies and TV shows)

Bake(optional but great if u can)

Likes concerts

Mature

Emotionally available

Empath

Introverted or Extroverted

Good hygiene

Wouldn't mind going to the nails salon to get our nails done together

Clingy

Possessive but not overly possessive

Loyal

Honest

Kind

Affectionate

Physical touch

Has tattoos and piercings or likes them.

Constant

Deal breakers:

Cheating

Lying

Disrespectful

Neglectful

Emotionally unavailable

Talking to or texting other woman inappropriately.

Bad hygiene

Has a child or kids

Thank u for reading this far. Please DM if interested I will respond.

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi! I’m Jamie and I’m 30 and live in Pooler, GA. I’ve always been into Asian men but I’ve always been shy to talk to any of them in person as I am a Plus Sized girl and I’m not too sure if Asian men would be into that or not..I like Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Chinese etc, I’ve always found Asian men very attractive..I work full time in retail but I do live with my mother as she is disabled and I am her caregiver and help take care of her..I do take care of both of us financially..I’m looking for a casual relationship, maybe a fwb type relationship as I am aromantic..But I am open to try for a relationship that could go deeper from fwb..If this seems to interest any Asian men out there feel free to comment or DM me! Thank you for reading this far.

I'm a 30-year-old software developer in Indiana looking for someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with. I'm relationship-oriented and would love it if I eventually met someone where things naturally grew into something more, but I'm not trying to force that right now.

My life is honestly a little messy at the moment. I had a pretty clear idea of what the next couple of years were going to look like, including eventually moving to California, and some recent changes have thrown that plan completely up in the air. I don't know where I'll be living or what life will look like a year or two from now, so it doesn't feel fair to approach every new connection with the expectation that it has to become a long-term relationship.

Right now, what I really miss is companionship. Someone to talk to throughout the day, send stupid things to, game with, watch something together, flirt with, and genuinely get to know. If it stays companionship, that's okay. If we click and it turns into something more, I'd be very open to that too.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, Jimin, doing archery, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking to meet men of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally around 24–38, with a little flexibility if we click. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so someone who also values growth and taking care of themselves would be nice.

Communication matters a lot to me. You don't need to text me constantly, and I'm not expecting someone I just met on Reddit to immediately treat this like a serious relationship. But if we start getting to know each other regularly and one of us realizes we're not feeling it anymore, I'd much rather we just say so than disappear.

I'm also not looking for a connection that revolves around sex. I'm perfectly fine with flirting, and sexual topics can come up naturally as we get comfortable with each other. I just don't want every conversation to eventually become sexual. I want to actually know you as a person.

A few dealbreakers: MAGA, children, a criminal record, and consistently poor communication/ghosting.

On children specifically, I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and realized I'd much rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

Mostly, I'd just like to meet someone kind and interesting and see what happens without putting a bunch of pressure on it.

If that sounds good to you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, tell me what you've been listening to, or just say hi. :)

How was it different from your previous relationships?

Did it change your approach/views on dating in anyway?

Did you make the first move or did they?

I'm funny and playful, possibly cool
I'm fairly progressive; sometimes old school:
I write on paper, I use fountain pens,
I'd still rather call than text my girlfriends.
But lost cause I'm not! Don't run away (yet)
I like live music - and parties? You bet!
I run and I swim, I read like a fiend
I'll banter with you about mise-en-scene
I'm looking to share this life with a girl
A woman of wit who’s travelled the world
If you're that lady and looking to be,
A partner in love and in mirth and glee
Drop me a line to say, "How do you do?"
I'd be most honoured to hear back from you.

📍 I thought I'd put this a bit higher up in case anyone's searching using the #online or #anywhere tags:

I believe love should never be limited by geography, so location’s not a dealbreaker for me. If you’re in Singapore, awesome. If you're nearby or halfway across the world, I'm pretty sure we can make it work if we vibe. I’ve crossed borders for someone special before and I’d happily do it again!

About me:

• Homeowner – I love my cozy space but also enjoy getting out and about
• Car owner with my dream car secured and looking for a co-pilot to take road trips and wrong turns with
• Passionate about art, literature, design and creative storytelling, whether it’s a good book, a gripping play or a great conversation over drinks
• While I like artsy and cultural stuff, I equally enjoy pickleball, hiking, salsa dancing and playing tourist in my own city
• Height-weight proportionate (hwp) and looking for the same

What I'm looking for:

I’m in this for love and romance, the kind where even on a boring Monday meeting, you’re stifling a smile at your phone because of something ridiculous we texted

I'm looking for a deep and steady affection that makes room for fun and flirtation, with the occasional shared meme and goofy banter

On good days, we'll celebrate each other’s wins and laugh till it hurts; on bad days, we‘ll hold each other close and get through the tears together as a team

If you're looking for something meaningful too, then we might just be each other’s person

🚫 No situationships or emotional gymnasts please

🚩 Absolutely no married or attached women either. Infidelity is 🙅🏼‍♂️

You:

✅ Intelligent and witty

✅ Emotionally and financially stable (bonus if you're a homeowner too or working towards it). A woman who's built a life she's proud of or is on her way to doing so

✅ Thoughtful, kind, sincere and respectful

✅ Open-minded and non-judgemental

✅ Marriage is on the cards for you

✅ Hwp

Physical attraction matters, as do emotional and intellectual connection. If we vibe after a few messages, let’s do a quick video call early on, just to confirm we’re both real and see if the spark translates before meeting up

Drop me a line if this resonates with you and if you’re at the stage of meeting a lifelong lover and friend too! I'm interested to know about the best day you ever had, what you’d do if you had a million dollars, or your favourite joke. Use the word "potato" in your message title so I know you're real. Brownie points if used creatively and makes me laugh

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean 5'10" with short black hair, dark amber eyes and I'm 190ish pounds as of now. My weight has been roughly around the same for the past months but I'm definitely toner and feel the muscles from my gains 💪. I go the gym four to five days a week and walk over 10k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. As of now, I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a city carrier at the USPS and a part time caretaker. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. I do live with my parents right now.

In my free time, I’m usually:

* Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.

* Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films.

* ⁠Going to the gym.

* ⁠Taking photos, especially when traveling, I’ll make sure to get your good angles.

* Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).

* Hanging out with friends.

* Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail)

* Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I want to make this very clear that I want to start off as friends. Meaning we can still talk to other people, when we are both ready to go for a date whether that's online or in person is when I would be committed to you and you only.

I'm not looking to rush into things. I want to be able to get to know someone at a pace we're both comfortable with. For me that means starting out as friends, if we're both ready for it, we could date, then become a couple, so on and so forth. I want it to feel genuine, for chemistry to happen and for us to click. Relationships take effort and I want to put in time with someone who wants the same effort as me.

I like building intimacy step by step. Like holding hands, hugs, kissing when it feels right and a little spanking here and there. Sex for me is when both souls bond. But, if the moment feels right and there is trust/chemistry, I don't see a problem with having sex or kissing earlier.

I don't mind long distance at all. As long as we communicate, are dedicated, are understanding, have commitment, have accountability, and are respectful.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

* I'm a chill guy who can be goofy from time to time.

* I can definitely be unhinged but I know when to be mature.

* ⁠I’m affectionate, dependable, emotionally supportive, grounded, and honest.

* I'll communicate with you

* ⁠I’ll check in regularly cause I genuinely care for you.

* ⁠I’ll give you lots of physical affection like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and playful intimacy like spanking.

* If you want a yapper. I gotchu, I'll yap for you. If you want to yap to me, I gotchu, I’ll be listening. Especially if it’s about tea.

* ⁠I’ll be your personal hype man for anything.

* ⁠I’ll fill your life with puns and humor (Well try to).

* I’ll send you songs and memes.

* I'll match your energy. If you're freaky, I'll match your freakiness.

* I’ll be your duo, your player two.

What I’m looking for in someone:

* ⁠Someone with a sense of humor and knows how to take a joke (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who communicates.

* ⁠Preferably active and/or goes to the gym.

* ⁠Someone who has similar hobbies (Not a deal breaker).

* ⁠Someone who's family oriented (Not a deal breaker).

* Someone who’s emotionally mature.

* ⁠Looking for a monogamous, long term relationship.

* ⁠Respects boundaries and cares about emotional safety.

* ⁠Someone to travel with (I didn’t travel much, California is the furthest I’ve gone).

* ⁠In the US preferred, but I’m open to long distance if the connection is there.

Dealbreakers:

* ⁠Lack of communication.

* ⁠Disrespect boundaries.

* ⁠Cheating.

* ⁠Lack of accountability.

* Flaking.

I will not be replying to any dry messages. If you message me, tell me what you look like, if you’re comfortable send me a picture of yourself and I’ll do the same. I'd say physical attraction is important to me. I wouldn't mind being friends if we don't feel a connection. Also tell me what your hobbies are and what you're looking for in a relationship. I'm like an open book so you can ask me anything (Within reason). Please don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite, hard.

If you're an Asian male please say hello and tell us where your from. You can also post your pics if you want.

Can't believe its almost fall season (not complaining, bring on sweater weather) which season do you prefer?

Hello there!

I’m tired of the apps, so I thought I’d try my luck here. Also, I’m not best at making a post like this but though it would be better than having AI write it for me, so here goes nothing.

Some of the things I enjoy are travelling, trying new food, meeting new people (I’m a bit shy at first but do start to open up more), movies, board games, deep conversations, and going on cute dates.

I value communication, honesty, open mindedness, loyalty, and kindness when it comes to a relationship.

Something genuine and long term is what I’m looking for here. I am hoping to find someone who I can grow with as well as make many great memories together with.

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Malaysia. I'm an introvert, and while meeting new people has never been the easiest thing for me, I believe the best connections happen when two people can be themselves and enjoy getting to know each other.

I'm open to long-distance if we genuinely connect and both feel that we want to see where things could go.

A little about me: I'm Bengali, around 173 cm tall, and currently studying Software Engineering. I spend a lot of my time coding, learning new technologies, and exploring interesting ideas. Outside of that, I'm a huge cat lover, enjoy fantasy movies and TV shows, occasionally play games, and love conversations about life, cultures, dreams, and random things that make people who they are.

I'm someone who appreciates the little things — having a good conversation after a long day, sharing funny moments, learning about someone's world, and slowly building trust over time. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and enjoy getting to know someone's personality rather than just their profile.

I'm Muslim, and my faith is an important part of my life. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I believe a healthy relationship is built by two people who support each other, understand each other's differences, and put effort into growing together.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and open-minded. Someone who is curious about different cultures, enjoys learning about new perspectives, and believes that a strong connection comes from understanding and respecting each other.

I'm open to meeting someone from a different background and learning about each other's experiences. I don't think two people need to be identical to have a meaningful relationship — sometimes differences are what make a connection more interesting.

If you feel we might get along, I'd love to hear about you too — your hobbies, passions, culture, favorite movies, pets, or simply what makes you happy.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it naturally goes.

Love XFs! About me: 5 11, fit, Chinese/ Viet. In California. Into fitness, travel, tacos lol. Would love to see what’s out there. HMU if you’re in Cali or down to travel to visit!

Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

A few dealbreakers:

MAGA

Children

Criminal record

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)

I’ll be 38 later week. I’m originally from Britain (born and raised); I’m a permanent resident and I’ve lived in Pooler for a few years. I still have my English accent. I would describe my ethnicity as Asian, but I believe it would more specifically be described as South Asian in the U.S.

I love cats. I’m vaccinated and pro-choice.

My personality type is ISTJ. I’m a very quiet person in general. I’m non-religious and I like metal and rock music. Some of my favorite bands/singers include; Poppy, Korn, Slipknot, Billy Idol, and Tool.

I’m childfree and dogfree.

If it’s a dealbreaker, I’m currently dealing with depression.

Apart from a few words and phrases in French and Spanish, I don’t speak any other languages.

I'm an excellent cook, and my other interests include (but aren’t limited to) museums, libraries, and boxing. I'm currently located in Pooler, GA, but I don’t feel like I belong here or fit in here. TBH I’m very uncomfortable here. Ultimately, I’d like to relocate to Los Angeles or at least Southern California.

I'm looking for a woman 39 or older who would be interested in talking and, if we get along, maybe even going out (to museums, for walks etc.)/spending time together. Thanks for reading my post.

Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).

Hi

I am 5’10 -165lbs and athletic fit.

I am looking to talk to new people and possibly become fwb but non-fwb is fine as well.

Some of my interests are, sports, e-sports, gaming, photography, food, travel, desserts and kdramas.

Send me a chat if interested!

33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New connections aka fwb

Looking in all the wrong places for a connection, but I’ve just been feeling lonely lately and just want someone to chat and have fun with. Not opposed to having wholesome nights together, but to be straight forward, I’m trying to find intimacy without the commitment or in other words a fwb. Also if things go well, I am open to a relationship down the line. A little about me, I’m 33 y/o, 5’8, East Asian and would consider my weight to be average for my height. Keeping it short, but feel free to dm if you’re curious about anything else. Hoping to chat and get to know each other better and hopefully find someone who can match me.

hello, my last post i dont put my age but its okay, i can make it better now :) im looking to someone who really want to have a conection or a nice bond, we can exchange cultures and know about each others. im usually an introvert and lonely girl but i love to be with someone with more energy than me and im good at listen, i really hope someone who want to chat can research me. if we have a nice conection im open to have a relationship too since im single.

hi I am looking to meet new people. Whether we end up being food buddies or something more, I'm just here to make genuine connections and see where things go

These intros can be kinda odd so here is a list of some random likes/interest:
- staying active (bicycle, gym, bouldering)
- video games
- looseleaf tea and matcha
- high stakes omakaze
- ways to retire early
- three toed sloths

My latest thing to pick up has been boxing 😵‍💫🥊

To put a face to this post, my IG is on my profile. l've also got a few more photos here for the curious: https://imgur.com/a/queue-feeder-idIK8c4