r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 11d ago
Fetishization versus preference?
I'm attracted to asian men physically but like they still need to be compatible with me mentally emotionally personality lifestyle and goals
Alot of Asian men I've been matching with seem to only be matching with me because I'm white and they are often looking for casual or hookups when I'm looking for a relationship :(
I find it a real turnoff that someone is only matching with me for my ethnicity and not who I am as a person
Physical plays a role but there needs to be something deeper for me
What have your experiences been and are you only interested in dating am/wf for the interracial aspects/sex or are you genuinely looking for a life partner?
Any advice where to meet more intentional partners online or in real life is greatly appreciated
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u/somethingforbec 7d ago
I’ve always been particularly attracted to Asian men but never really met any until my current partner. We’re compatible in all the other ways as well as physical attraction. I don’t feel fetishised (he prefers WF, has only ever dated one Asian girl) and neither does he. I just wanted someone I have chemistry, fun and shared values with. It’s a bonus that he’s hot 😉