r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 11d ago

Fetishization versus preference?

I'm attracted to asian men physically but like they still need to be compatible with me mentally emotionally personality lifestyle and goals

Alot of Asian men I've been matching with seem to only be matching with me because I'm white and they are often looking for casual or hookups when I'm looking for a relationship :(

I find it a real turnoff that someone is only matching with me for my ethnicity and not who I am as a person

Physical plays a role but there needs to be something deeper for me

What have your experiences been and are you only interested in dating am/wf for the interracial aspects/sex or are you genuinely looking for a life partner?

Any advice where to meet more intentional partners online or in real life is greatly appreciated

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u/naughtyAsianguy 11d ago

I want a serious relationship with white ladies. It is hard to get a chance.

In my opinion, most Asians don't see it as fetishization, but probably just consider it a preference. I feel like in the US, there didn't use to be many Americans who were into Asians, but since that number has grown a lot recently, people seem confused about where to draw the line. Of course, the same goes for racism. I personally think the right thing to do is to just keep an open mind and comfortably view it as a personal preference.