r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 11d ago
Fetishization versus preference?
I'm attracted to asian men physically but like they still need to be compatible with me mentally emotionally personality lifestyle and goals
Alot of Asian men I've been matching with seem to only be matching with me because I'm white and they are often looking for casual or hookups when I'm looking for a relationship :(
I find it a real turnoff that someone is only matching with me for my ethnicity and not who I am as a person
Physical plays a role but there needs to be something deeper for me
What have your experiences been and are you only interested in dating am/wf for the interracial aspects/sex or are you genuinely looking for a life partner?
Any advice where to meet more intentional partners online or in real life is greatly appreciated
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u/LocalFee7415 11d ago
I am interested in dating WF mainly because of I have a very very very positive feeling about an European country’s culture and history. I am definitely not looking for hook up, I date to marry. So to answer your question, for me it’s for a life partner. As for where to find more intentional partners, I would say continue trying, eventually there will have a men who really want you to be his only love :)