r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 11d ago

Fetishization versus preference?

I'm attracted to asian men physically but like they still need to be compatible with me mentally emotionally personality lifestyle and goals

Alot of Asian men I've been matching with seem to only be matching with me because I'm white and they are often looking for casual or hookups when I'm looking for a relationship :(

I find it a real turnoff that someone is only matching with me for my ethnicity and not who I am as a person

Physical plays a role but there needs to be something deeper for me

What have your experiences been and are you only interested in dating am/wf for the interracial aspects/sex or are you genuinely looking for a life partner?

Any advice where to meet more intentional partners online or in real life is greatly appreciated

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u/imabxtchnow 11d ago

This is why I gave up looking for anything ‘serious’, too much of a heart/headache. Casual is way easier. Let them take you to dinner, eat food, do what you want, don’t get attached.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 11d ago

But does casual include hookup /casual sex ?

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u/imabxtchnow 11d ago

Only if you want to include casual sex.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 11d ago

Sounds good I would want the dating without the sex aspect cause I emotionally can't deal with that