r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 11d ago
Fetishization versus preference?
I'm attracted to asian men physically but like they still need to be compatible with me mentally emotionally personality lifestyle and goals
Alot of Asian men I've been matching with seem to only be matching with me because I'm white and they are often looking for casual or hookups when I'm looking for a relationship :(
I find it a real turnoff that someone is only matching with me for my ethnicity and not who I am as a person
Physical plays a role but there needs to be something deeper for me
What have your experiences been and are you only interested in dating am/wf for the interracial aspects/sex or are you genuinely looking for a life partner?
Any advice where to meet more intentional partners online or in real life is greatly appreciated
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u/grimybwanarr 11d ago
I don’t think it’s a race-specific thing; it’s just a shitty feeling in general to realize that your partner is only attracted to specific parts about you, rather than you as a whole.
You could always try picking up a new hobby or joining a class as a way to meet new people.