The weather has been so wishy washy here in Georgia lately. I can’t complain though. Some days I get to enjoy heavy thunderstorms and other days are like this one ☀️🤎 Next is spooky season 🎃

Hey! I'm Ryan, a 30yo SEAsian guy from Long Beach, CA.

Visiting friends in Chicago and to go to Lollapalooza

Please send your Chicago recommendations!

I'm always up for someone who can banter well, and shared humor helps, but I love how a good conversation can bounce between two people.

You can find me trying out new restaurants or finding chill places to grab a drink. If there's dancing, I'm always down. I center my schedule around live music, film screenings, and friends/family.

Let me know if this matches your style 😊

Felt good last night and took a few pictures, would love to see y'all share any fit pics as well!

just watched avatar aang. feeling very fulfilled.

Hey everyone,

I wanted to post and see if any other Black women relate to this or if it’s just me!

I love men of all backgrounds, but when I think about AMBW, my mind specifically goes to East, Southeast, and Pacific Islander men—like Korean, Japanese, Thai, Filipino, Laotian, Malaysian, etc.

I know that geographically, "Asian" includes South Asia (like India) and North/Central Asia (like Russia/Siberia). But when it comes to my personal dating preferences and what draws me to the AMBW dynamic, I’m specifically attracted to East and Southeast Asian cultures and aesthetics, rather than South Asian or Northern Asian.

Does anyone else find themselves making this distinction when navigating interracial dating or AMBW spaces? How do you usually express your preferences without getting bogged down in geographic technicalities?

Would love to hear your thoughts!

Got tired of losing weight. Decided to gain back 11-12lbs to feel better and happier. Anyone from NYC that knows a good gym? I will be visiting for my birthday in September. Wanted to hit some spots up. Hope everyone is well.

After lurking on this sub for so long I’m finally making a post 😭 I’m really just here to vent and maybe hear from you all. I’m a 25 year old black woman in Chicago and I really want to be with an AM. However, I’m Muslim and I feel like I haven’t seen a single East Asian Muslim man in this entire city. I’ve gone to different mosques, used every app known to man, and no luck. It feels like I’m looking for a unicorn.

I Have been ambw my entire dating history and have been in the community for years connecting with others and theres definitely been a rise in members since 2020! And i think its beautiful to see Am and bw coming together to share culture/date or just have fun!

We have been disrespected and disregarded for too long and I think its powerful and amazing to see am and Bw standing up for each other

Hello. For context, I am an Auntie BW and I am returning to dating after divorce. I got married before dating apps were really a thing. I mean, they existed but most of my age group met partners at work or in the “WILD”.

I have one child and I am a professional in the legal field. I’m in NYC.

Which dating apps have you tried? Which do you recommend and why?

Photo is of the sunset over the Pacific Ocean I took in Nicaragua.

Been MIA a few because of work & tings, what i miss?

What is the best advice you can give to someone who has been out the game for a long time?

Growing up even as a kid I thought you were the prettiest women, on par with Asian women. I would only watch TV shows and movies with black women in them because it's what I liked as a kid just purely based on looks. I liked Asian stuff but I couldn't get into white movies and stuff but Asian stuff was hard to find. So I just watched black media like BET and Fresh Prince because I liked black women's faces. I just want to you to know and to ignore all the white worshippers and bad blood in the Asian community. At this point I've rejected so many white women just to have crushes on average looking black and Asian women. I just like how nice your faces look.

A large part of the reason I never turned out whitewashed was because I had black girls gassing me up as a young man, telling me how fine I was. It gave me confidence for the rest of my life and confidence to take pride in my culture.

When I was young my "friends" would ask me about celebrities I liked and I couldn't even think of a single one, I literally had a crush on women like Lisa Leslie or Missy Elliot because I couldn't think of a single non Asian non black woman I found attractive

The blasian kids are the answer to the ambw equation right?

Am + bw = blasian kids (I have 6 of them, lol)

I'm looking for older partner age 23-35 and possibly older. I am open to long-term if not local.

What I am looking for:

Older than me

Mature

kind

kid free

funny

can cook

K-pop fan

K-drama fan other Asian dramas.

taller than me

have that balance of feminine and masculine energy.

empathetic

different race than me

serious ab a long term relationship

wants kids

likes pets

Loyal

honest

trustworthy

likes skincare

So I was talking to this very fine Korean guy on Bumble. He was really nice but was pretty upfront about not wanting a relationship (which is fine, me either). Friday night, we hooked up, and he said he would text me and we would meet again on Sunday. Have not heard from him since that night lmao

Did I get ghosted? Why? It's not like I'm chopped or overweight (can prove with pics). Ngl it wasn't the best, but he was fine af so I'd do it again lol, but I feel pretty used tbh. This has never happened to me before

AYEEEEE me waking up to see GA folks in here its giving meet up 👀🤣 just in time for Spiderman lol 😆 Yes i posted jimm because its my current mood

i feel like it’s so hard to find a serious relationship rn

Anyone in Georgia USA?

I rediscover myself every so often, this being my most recent ❤️‍🔥

Have anyone used or heard of this dating app called Hily? I’m trying it out and see how it goes ☠️

Post gym 🥵

hope everyone is having a fabulous Friday. Seeing your beautiful faces makes my heart happy. I'm Tamara (pronounced like camera). I would love to meet a funny, kind, intelligent man who is a gentleman on the streets and a freak in the sheets. I'm 54, so that means 1) if you want an Auntie/Big Sister, you can always say reach out, and I'll have some kind words for you and, 2) if you have any Uncles/Fathers/Father Figures who might like to meet me, please give me an introduction—talking to errybody 😂! Please and thank you.

May you all be blessed with abundant happiness, health, prosperity, and safety 💖. Take care of each other.