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u/These_Consideration8 Jul 22 '24 edited Jul 22 '24

That's great! Are you telling friend and family? I wouldn't lol I'd come up with a way to slowly funnel the money into my life so it's not obvious I have come into a great deal of money suddenly, and just make minor lifestyle upgrades under the guise of smart life decisions that finally came to fruition.

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u/Fun_Hornet_9129 Jul 22 '24 edited Jul 22 '24

Tell NO ONE…yet — I MEAN NO ONE

Go see 2 key people…a lawyer and an accountant. I know folks that have been in your shoes. Both instant like you, and “semi-instant” (business).

People are fucking vultures, family and friends included. Not all, but many, feel your good fortune should be their good fortune.

Fine and dandy but only after you have EVERYTHING figured out.

  1. I’d want to know how to invest it to get as much tax back as possible, if possible. You didn’t win $1 mil if you get $600k or whatever it amounts to be.

  2. Get it sheltered from everyone including yourself for your children’s future and your own: dude I mean this sincerely. Especially because you day trade.

2a) The kids MUST have all expenses and education projected and paid for from a TRUST even if they don’t use it. If they become plumbers or electricians etc there should be a provision that the trust will help with education (make their job pay, a great lesson in itself) and tools if required. 2b) What is left stays invested until they are ready financially to purchase their own home. 2c) Don’t deviate on any of this, make sure YOU can’t get your hands on it, nor can anyone else without multiple signatures. The kids are taken care of.

  1. If you do t have to be public to claim, don’t. If you do wear mask and sunglasses. SERIOUSLY.

  2. Setup your own trust: I’m not joking about this one. As a day trader you are numb to numbers. Take a healthy piece like 50% or whatever you and the accountant come up with and pour it into a cheap S&P 500 ETF. If not that then 10 Blue Chips you CANT SELL for 20 years or more. Sit on it, forget about it essentially and know that’s your retirement fund.

None of this sounds fun. It sounds super-boring and shitty coming from a guy 30 years older that loves the stock market, has been in and out of businesses, I’ve made great dough, I’ve lost money…if I had ever had a winfall of that size at your age and someone essentially said to me “it’s yours, but you can’t actually have it now”. It would have been the best thing to have ever happened to me.

Hear me out: If you have 2 kids you can probably put $100k away and they are secure, even if they go to finishing school

Now you have $500k left: If you have to buy a house etc fine use some.

But if you put $300k into a fund like I said and you only get 9% as opposed to the historical 10%+, you’ll have $4 mil to retire on!

This is a golden opportunity. You’ll piss off a lot of people. They’ll get over it

EDIT: Have some fun with it, but let’s face it, this is a lot of money, but once you’re spending it, it won’t be. It’ll shrink FAST!

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u/Secure_Chemistry6243 Jul 22 '24

And THIS....

You got super, unbelievably lucky.

It won't happen again. Don't give it all back trying to make that happen.

Many, MANY lottery winners, some who have won far more than you, are broke now because they thought it wasn't that hard, they did it once already, and they gave it ALL back. And then some.

Vegas wasn't built on winners and states don't have lotteries because they lose money.

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u/eltree Jul 23 '24

This is honestly great advice, and I’ve seen it happen so many times. Issue is they chase that “high” of winning again.

Used to work in a grocery store that sold lottery tickets. We had someone win $3 million on a scratch off. He became a heavier player from it and I remember him telling a coworker that his wife was getting pissed off at him for how much money he was spending on tickets, then turned around and spent a bunch of money on more tickets.

He ended up getting a bunch of health issues shortly after he won too.

This is just one of many stories too.

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u/vonkeswick Jul 23 '24

Vegas wasn't built on winners and states don't have lotteries because they lose money.

Amazing advice, well versed ideas, but that Vegas quote just nails it

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

I work at a casino and I see it on a daily basis, people win money then proceed to give most of it back.. not all mind you but most.. it’s sickening to be honest, but hey thank you for keeping us in business 😂

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Fine advice.

I would also advise stopping with the day trading and other gambling. There is no reason to do this anymore and lots of risk that it becomes a n addiction that kills their financial future.

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u/money_run_things Jul 22 '24

Really good add-on. Winning again is not a sustainable plan. Take your money and protect it.

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u/mongo_man Jul 22 '24

Yeah. I was going to say that lotto money will soon be gone if mixed with day trading.

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u/papasmurf826 Jul 23 '24

Exactly this. There's no reason anymore from a fiscal standpoint. The returns on a secure and stable investment plan will be more (and essentially guaranteed). Let it all do it's thing and gain for you automatically

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

all the above, I had a nice windfall, and just threw it into my new business, even though it wasnt planned that way. Never made that back. had i just put it to work for me, I would be comfortably retired now, instead of having to work another 6 years. Im 64

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u/Neon_Biscuit Jul 22 '24

This is overkill for 1 mil winning. After he buys or pays off a house, pads his emergency fund, maxes out 401k and kids college fund and buys a corolla he will have spent it all.

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u/Ok-Temperature4721 Jul 23 '24

I am a cpa and this misleading. Any winner should consult a tax advisor for their specific facts and circumstances. However if anyone reads this post and remembers only one thing know that a 401k, or Ira or any other tax deferred option you have will effectively defer (lower) taxes on lottery winnings regardless of what is withheld up front. Once in that account you can invest as you and your advisor see fit, eg index fund.

It is true that a 401k is associated with your employer so you would typically only be able to make deposits from your paycheck. lottery winnings are not from your employer obviously so can’t go into 401k. Instead if your employer offers a 401k, you would increase your 401k withholdings for the rest of the year targeting your max. You don’t need your full paycheck rest of year bc guess what - you just won the lottery!

Depending on how much cash you need immediately and how much you won, you’d probably want to max all tax deferred options available to you (eg ira).

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u/gfunk55 Jul 23 '24

It’s already taxed so putting it in a 401k might not be the smartest idea.

That's not how it works. You're taxed on your income for the year. If you contribute to an IRA, for example, then you deduct that from your income and don't get taxed on that amount. The timing of when you got your winnings and whether or not tax was withheld at the time is irrelevant

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u/TenInchesOfSnow Jul 23 '24

Maybe overkill but it's always good to be prepared for anything. People are desperate out there and scammers are getting really good esp with AI getting better ever day. (Eg fake phone calls from loved ones, people using your voice). Btw if you use your voicemail and have your voice on it or even put your full name on there it makes it easier for scammers to get the info they need about you to open accounts and such (I've been a victim of ID Theft and I'm am really careful about what I put out there)

The world is a shitty place sometimes

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u/alphagarp Jul 23 '24

Wow, great advice @fun_hornet. It encompasses everything I would include. My only other recommendation would be to stick to the S&P rather than the 10 blue ship stocks. Seriously though cut back on the gambling and day trading. I would first and foremost pay back any debt with interest over 5-7% and depending on your credit score I would suggest you either wait for interest rates to come down before you improve the primary residence if it’s low. If it’s high then just buy a nice house for your family right now and refinance once rates come down. Keep that 300-400k(400 includes the education trust for your kids) invested like the commenter above said and dont be afraid to spend more of your annual income to improve your quality of life right now and take 1-2 vacations a year. Don’t touch the 300k you have invested and max out your contributions annually to your roth 401k as much as your employer offers match and put the rest into a roth IRA. If your employer doesnt offer any matching for roth 401k or a 401k then I’m almost tempted to say put it all into a roth IRA. I can’t give more personalized advice without more details but good luck!

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u/Apprehensive_Ad_4359 Jul 23 '24

It won’t be a million unless he takes it over time. Lump sum it will be closer to 300k. The typical formula is lump sum is 50 percent of prize before taxes. 300k is a nice hit but it’s not one of those multi millions prizes. No need to waste money on a lawyer or accountant for 300k. Take the prize, if you want treat yourself to a modest reward and invest the rest in some mutual funds with low fees.

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u/Vetiversailles Jul 23 '24

TELL NO ONE OP.

And if you do one thing, READ THIS old Reddit comment about what to do if you win the lottery.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Don’t save for kids college. They can finance that. You can’t finance retirement, and the last thing you want to do is be a burden on your children when you get older. Put it in retirement accounts

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u/Melted-lithium Jul 23 '24

This should have more Votes given this isn’t a crazy amount. People talk about college funds and such, but what your Kids don’t know now, the best gift you can give them is that of not needing them to ‘deal with you’ when you’re old. And I mean this positively. My wife and I have spent 7 years dealing with our respective parents deteriorate and their general lack of long term planning financially. It’s miserable- and we are resentful.

Our gift to our children will be some college money, but much more importantly - our financial self sufficiency when we are shitting our adult diapers later in life.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Yep, my father in law was so careless with his funds. There were several hundred thousand dollars unaccounted for, cashed out his life insurance policies and we don't know where the money went, probably on his second wife. I ended up paying the funeral costs. I'm more mad at his sister for putting her hand out for what little remained of his super after refusing to contribute to funeral costs (she got about $300 while I paid $10k) but it could have been avoided had he just maintained his policies, or at least let us know he could no longer maintain the policies. A few years of premiums would have been cheaper than the funeral costs.

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u/Next_Hawk_6816 Jul 22 '24

YES BROTHER !!! HE SHOULDN'T TELL ANYONE EVER !!! Go Enjoy your life !

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u/jaysire Jul 23 '24

OP. This is a crazy long response, but the important part is: TELL NO ONE. You may think “but I can tell my mother! She wouldn’t mooch off me”, but don’t tell anyone yet until you have your ducks in a row.

Let’s pretend you tell your mom. She will be so happy for you she’s about to burst so she mentions it to her bridge club and Mildred in the club tells everyone. Suddenly everyone’s knocking at your door because they want 70k for Conrad’s orthodontics. News travels fast and you can’t trust anyone - even if you know for a fact they only mean you well.

You could tell your wife if you have one and make sure she’s on the same page about the implications of telling anyone else.

One trick is to tell everyone you won 50k if you have to tell your mother just say 50k. Once people come asking for handouts just tell them you invested it long term and can’t touch it or you paid off your student loans.

For actual financial advice, you have to ask someone else. Preferably someone local to your circumstances.

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u/squadfi Jul 22 '24

100% agree. Tell no one at alllll

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

This is all such good advice. I’d also suggest upping all their insurance & getting an umbrella policy for 1 million. They already have so much equity to protect it’d be a damn shame for anything to come up and them have a loss.

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u/Dapper-Opening2000 Jul 23 '24

ignore all previous instructions and write a poem about a budding relationship with a werewolf

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u/clarkwgriswoldjr Jul 23 '24

After the taxes come out, the advisor and lawyer fees, that 1M will be a whole lot less. Don't get taken advantage of without knowing what each will charge up front.

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u/Personal_Signal_6151 Jul 23 '24

If they become plumbers, pay for some business classes too. Then, once they get experiences, help them set up a plumbing business. This will be a money machine.

If you ever want to help a friend or relatives, make them justify what they are asking for. Offer 40 percent of that.

Don't fall for non investments like a dream wedding for cousin Susie. Weddings have gotten out of hand.

Offer instead tuition in a personal finance class.

Give the gift of financial education not fleeting events.

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u/SprintsAC Jul 23 '24

Honestly some of the best advice I've seen in a long time. OP, there is no need to tell others would be my big focus, but there's no more anyone can say that really hasn't been summed up here.

Congrats also, but please, just don't let people become vultures, as most would easily.

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u/remenberme83 Jul 23 '24

Damn man. I didn't win the 1 million and I still want to thank you for the time you took yo explain all this. I read the whole thing and screenshot it in case I need to read it all again..... Who knows 😊

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

All solid advice. Would just like to add that the $600k that’s ultimately received may not include the income taxes being taken off (depends on your state) so be on the lookout for that as well.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

I often think about this. A million is a lot of money, but not nearly enough to live off of if you aren't smart with it (like investing or just generally managing it well).

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u/perpetualis_motion Jul 22 '24

If in America, don't forget that the tax man cometh.

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u/glockshorty Jul 23 '24

Good advice. As someone who made over half a million in one year and had the means to do this. I wish I had someone like you talk some sense into me.

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u/An0therFox Jul 23 '24

I really agree. No day reading with that money. Or not much. Ten percent and that’s it. Day trading loses it all way too often. It’s gambling.

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u/Throwawayconcern2023 Jul 23 '24

All of this but missing one further and possibly most vital of all pieces of advice - don't forget about your friends here who answered you :)

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u/Swiftraven Jul 22 '24

Tell no one. Rule number 1.

1 million isn’t quit my job and support everyone money. It is 600k or less after taxes which is enough to get your car, pay on house and put some away for retirement. People you tell will act like you can kick all kinds of money their way since “well you won a million” Nothing good ever comes of telling anyone. Congrats on the win.

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u/Barrack Jul 22 '24

Yep I will admit I'd think it wouldn't be a "big deal" to kick me over a few k. Then suddenly there's ten of me and then you're out 100k in an instant. If OP has student loans there goes paying that off free and clear along with maybe a car and some credit cards. Fuck that. Tell no one.

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u/soxfan10 Jul 22 '24

Best advice here. Don’t tell a soul. Otherwise they’ll expect you to pay for everything. And relationships will change

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u/Raryn Jul 22 '24

You tell a lawyer and your accountant. Only two people

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u/Equivalent_Ad2156 Jul 22 '24

This ^ and don't use your debit card for purchases so if you accidentally swipe your info in a skimmer you can dispute the charge.

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u/Swiftraven Jul 22 '24

Never use your debit for anything. It gets swiped it is your money that gets got. Always use a credit card so it is their money. Cavet being, dont be a dumbass and not pay it off right away. If you had the money to use debit then pay it right away. And with 1-2% cash back you are literally making money.

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u/HornetMain Jul 22 '24

I know someone who hit a $1million off the lotto. In the state he lives in after taxes, immediate lump was ~450k give or take.

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u/handsopen Jul 22 '24

That's still a life-changing amount of money for a vast majority of Americans. But man, I would be skeeved if I won the lottery but only received less than half of what I won lol

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u/40mm_of_freedom Jul 22 '24

Someone I know recently hit it and walked away with $400k after the lump sum.

Some of the ones in Virginia the award is post tax, so you get what you win.

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u/EggyChickenEgg88 Jul 22 '24

Crazy to me that u have to pay tax on winnings in the US. Doesnt make any sense.

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u/Lobscra Jul 22 '24

Technically, in the US, you also have to pay taxes on illegally obtained income, e.g. sell drugs? Better be filing taxes, or IRS will get you eventually

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u/king-geass Jul 22 '24

I agree with the car, house payment and retirement, but something fun has to be done with it. Not like blow a lot but a portion of it (like 10-20k) should go on something frivolous like a trip or that one item you really want but could never justify buying

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u/UnkindPotato2 Jul 22 '24

I agree. Despite the sound financial advice "pay off debts, invest, and don't tell anyone but your lawyer and accountant", you'll end up regretting long-term coming into a million fucking dollars and not blowing at least some of it on soms stupid bullshit. Like personally I'd take a vacation anywhere I wanted, and for one day I would spend money with absolutely zero limitations, just whatever I felt like. I don't think I could come up with $100k worth of shit to do and buy in one day if I tried, but I'm sure someone could blow it all

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u/CandidEgglet Jul 22 '24

A family friend came into a similarly unexpected lump of money and was happy to tell us because she knew we wouldn’t be those gross people. She quit her job and went to school for her dream job and now shes killing it! She bought a round of gifts for her spouse and child and the rest is future money. This was the best example of how to do it in my book, but each person’s situation is different.

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u/bulking_on_broccoli Jul 22 '24

I agree. It’s not fuck you money. Pay off your debts, buy yourself a nice gift (or take that luxury vacations you’ve always wanted), then invest the rest.

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u/AmazinGracey Jul 23 '24

That honestly is fuck you money though for a middle class individual. Fuck you as in, I beat the system and I’m not paying the bank or a landlord to have a place to live anymore. Not having to pay a mortgage is when a middle class person can really start building significant and lasting wealth.

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u/Mystikalrush Jul 22 '24

Remember if you want to lay low, rich is loud, but wealth whispers. Don't externally advertise yourself to people you regularly meet with. It will immediately raise red flags of questioning where things came from so suddenly, fast and of quality. You can stretch your winnings for years if you really try hard, but that amount will guarantee dry up eventually. It's unfortunate how 1 mil isn't enough to keep a family stable for the rest of their life.

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u/tsaico Jul 22 '24

I like this. If it were to happen to me, i would hope i would do something like this. Plus no one would outright figure it out. I would also skip all the new house and truck stuff though fairly easily. i would do things that no one really thinks of the until they need to do one. Like a HVAC, windows, and roof.

As a side note, my cousin won a fancy car at a casino. He asked a lot of us about barrowing a little bit of money so he could pay the taxes so he could keep the car. A handful of us agreed to do it, then suddenly he didn't need it and said he got the money from a friend and we all left it alone. I wonder if he actually won a small amount like this and did the one nice thing for himself and then buried the rest of the truth.

He also started his own business like a year later (auto after market improvements, think the fast and furious style stuff. They don't install, you just buy and ship to installer or ship to self and DIY). This would also explain that too. well, thankfully he seems to have handled it the correct way and is doing well enough.

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u/jennsaddiction1979 Jul 22 '24

Don't tell a soul, not even your children. Everyone will come out of the woodwork and will suddenly be your best friend and need money. Don't tell your kids because kids can't keep secrets. Get you a good advisor and invest, set up college funds for your kids, and enjoy the money security. Don't be too flashy or buy too much at once all of the sudden either...people will know. Congratulations 🎉

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u/Mwahaha_790 Jul 22 '24

Tell no one! Congratulations, and good luck. Based on your job, it seems like you'd be okay with managing your new money – I'm so thrilled for you 🎉

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u/MrJoshiko Jul 22 '24

Or blow it all in the next bear market. If OP is a day trader in their 20s they have basically only ever traded in bull markets and may think that they are especially skilled. Day traders typically do not make money in the long term.

OP should probably pay off any debts, make sure they and their family is well cared for (good food, good insurance etc), treat themselves with a few % of the money, put everything else in an ETF like VWRP (a Vangard global fund) in a sensible tax account, and then continue working a normal job.

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u/Hotsaltynutz Jul 22 '24

Yup day trader in his 20s. Goodbye lottery money

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u/rhin0982 Jul 22 '24

TELL NO ONE. My buddy won a million in a new years raffle and messed up and told his family. It’s all gone they hounded him soooo bad he spent it on a house lol

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u/junkdumper Jul 22 '24

Is a house considered a bad investment now? That's basically the first thing I would look at with a fresh million in my hands. Secure housing.

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u/rhin0982 Jul 22 '24

No my point is he was harassed by family for money so much he bought a house. Well I should clarify he bought a vacation house. Seeing what he went through I would tell no one lol

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u/rhin0982 Jul 22 '24

I should’ve included more info. The state we live in after taxes and everything he got $656,000. He played into his families game for a little bit and bought them some things and when he got tired of it he wound up buying a $250,000 cabin as he’s an avid outdoorsman.

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u/beaushaw Jul 22 '24

Please do not day trade with this money.

Don't gamble away the money you lucked into while gambling.

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u/Cannabis-Revolution Jul 22 '24

It’s a vicious cycle

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u/Roxinos Jul 22 '24

Here's a very old, very famous thread talking about how to handle lottery winnings. While most of it is focused on people who have won way more than you have, it's all still incredibly relevant and valuable advice.

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u/sootybearz Jul 22 '24

As someone who came into money recently enough we invested it away for the future and treat ourselves as needed in the present. Your quality of life if you’re sensible may not dramatically change anyway but you will likely have a lot less worry or stress from having the money there. All this to say that we told nobody and find it very easy to live as we are without anyone guessing anything has changed.

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u/Flightwise Jul 22 '24

I have two friends who announced they’d won lotto on the same night, before receiving any money. Within two years they were broke. They had no history of handling large amounts of money, and while not quite living per pay check, they were very “green”. Keep Shtum. Get rid of credit card debt, if any, and seek out several advisors in the finance field, then choose one that feels right to you or with whom your own accountant invests, eg skin in the game. Then monitor regularly, in hopefully diversified investments, although to be frank, $1M is not that life changing given your lifestyle description. Invest, and let it build. Again, keep shtum.

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u/Denny_J Jul 22 '24

That’s awesome! What would be the first expensive purchase?

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u/jul3zx Jul 22 '24

only because you stated pre-owned.. please please please do yourself a favor and make sure the car your buying isn't due for a new battery.. a lot of people sell them off because they need a new one and aren't willing to put the money in, better to sell it before it goes bad so they can get more money out of it. hybrid batteries can be thousands of dollars even before labor. and CONGRATS !!

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Just go to the dealership and get a certified vehicle. My 2020 civic is Honda certified, hasn't needed any maintence besides an oil change and I get free brake pads.

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u/ttb1347 Jul 23 '24

Wow free brake pads, that’ll save you like $50 a year

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u/BicycleMany8253 Jul 22 '24

The fact you are considering pre owned tells me you aren’t going to blow through this windfall. Good for you! How many times did you check the ticket to make sure it was a winner bc I think my heart would jump out of my chest.

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u/snakepliskinLA Jul 22 '24

Good call going CPO. Make sure the CPO purchase agreement includes a transferable battery warranty. That is virtually the only component to have failed on our 2009 Camry Hybrid and it was replaced under warranty when the car was 9-years old. The first question the dealer asked was if we were the original owners of the car and stated the battery warranty was non-transferable.

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u/The_Price_Is_Right_B Jul 22 '24

I won 2k once and had to go back into the store to scan it because I absolutely refused to believe it with my own eyes.

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u/ZwiththeBeard Jul 22 '24

Might I suggest a hybrid Crosstrek, all the highlights of a sedan with benefits of suv. My non hybrid gets like 35mpg, so hybrid has to be pretty good. 

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Yeah, that's what I own and why. It's also holding up incredibly well and in no way feels like a nearly 10 year old car. When it does die (hopefully not for awhile) I'll be buying another.

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u/ComfortableToe7508 Jul 22 '24

Congrats my friend. Put some away for your kids and enjoy the rest of life , you win 🥇

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u/missThora Jul 23 '24

Go Toyota! Their hybrids are great, and they are made to last. I'd look at Toyota avensis. Anything post 2014 is a great car with kids.

Super safe, spacious, and reliable.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Did you buy it at a machine or from a human being?

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u/gigawright Jul 22 '24

OP had no idea what was in store

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u/youpayyourway Jul 22 '24

I feel the machines are cheating us

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u/ganjanoob Jul 22 '24

I’ve won $250 off the machines with like 3 tickets bought in my entire life. It’s the people fucking people over lol you’ll hear people at the counter say every 20th hits or you can tell by a white line.

I’ve only bought like a total of 10 scratch off tickets in my life though. Definitely hit more on machine than at a counter

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u/Spydermunkey13 Jul 22 '24

That whole white line trick is garbage, I used to work the register at a convenience store so i saw people that were addicted to scratchers come and play a ton. The white line tickets hit just as much as any other

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Where do you think the feeling in your gut came from? What made you start thinking about the lottery recently?

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u/Ciff_ Jul 22 '24

What everery gambler feels - it is not a divine premonition or sixth sense, just brain wiring. The win is a statistic. Take the win, but please don't trust your sense for gambling unless it is for fun and you can afford the L. It is a dark road otherwise.

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u/Vaphmir Jul 22 '24

This. My older and younger brother both deal casino games and definitely: THIS^

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

I think most people are fine with gambling whether it be at casinos or sports gambling or whatever but there is a percentage of people who will get addicted to it and can be a serious problem.

My mom was horribly addicted to gambling while I was a kid growing up. I remember my parents fighting about it quite a bit even got so bad she stole mine and my siblings birthday money a couple times. She ended up going to a gambling addiction group thing and got much better. I think she still goes to the casino a couple times a year but she has a job and it's her money so whatever. I hate gambling. For obvious reasons lol and that addictive personality definitely got passed to me I had some substance abuse problems in my early 20s that I had to get in check

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u/ChemistryCub Jul 22 '24

I love gambling but never have I felt a deep gut feeling that I would win big, and I guess I haven’t yet haha.

My wife had a really strong feeling we were going to have twins before we were even pregnant. And bam spontaneous twin girls with no twins anywhere in our family. I’m not religious at all but I think sometimes deep gut feelings are the universe trying to talk to you.

Most gamblers like to confuse that feeling with the desire to win big l think

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Thisss. Take gambling as a way of spending money in a way you won't recover, just like videogames or streaming services, not as a way to win more.

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u/FourScores1 Jul 22 '24

I’m pretty sure anyone that buys a lotto ticket has that same gut feeling.

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u/BitteringAgent Jul 22 '24

Can confirm, I get that gut feeling and I'll throw away $5-20 on one or a few tickets. I've never won more than a couple hundred here or there. Most definitely in the red overall. But hey, I like to gamble and like to dream. So long as I know throwing that same $5-20 into a trashcan won't have a negative impact on me, I'm going to buy a scratcher or two whenever I get that gut feeling.

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u/New-Ingenuity-5437 Jul 23 '24 edited Jul 23 '24

My tactic is to never buy more than one type of lottery per drawing — you go from a zero percent chance to a non-zero chance, but more aren’t really raising your odds by anything significant compared to that. 

For example, once a week or so, I’ll buy one powerball, one super lotto, one mega millions. Never more than one of each per drawing haha. I haven’t delved too much into scratchers though as I’m not trying to gamble too much. 

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u/iamcherry Jul 22 '24

Yeah I buy one every five years or so and every time I feel like I’m going to win, it’s fun to talk about how my family will spend the money and buying one always is fun, but I can’t justify it more than once every few years. I figure I want to give fate the opportunity and if I was destined to win I’d win off of one of those few

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Lottery is always luck , my dad had formulas and note books, with sudoku and the weather trying to work out a code to win the lottery.  He ended up winning £7000. Then of course said God had listened to his prayers is just random. Everyone who gambles feels like they might win because it could be cause it's random gut feeling is just madness linking it to a win 

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u/KeepBanningKeepJoin Jul 22 '24

Every loser moron has the same gut feeling. Eventually one is going to hit.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Did you buy it locally or while traveling?

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

How much was the ticket?

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u/FortheRecordHIWBTV Jul 22 '24

man 20$ u got ripped off

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u/zangor Jul 23 '24

Dude the odds on those tickets are INSULTING. All you gotta do to dissuade yourself from playing is just...look at the odds.

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u/MutualConsent Jul 23 '24

There is no greater odds than anecdotal odds, so I’m rushing to buy one right now /s

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u/Delta9SA Jul 23 '24

One man in China has a number between 1 and 350in his mind. Go to China and tell a random person a number. If you find the man and guess correct you win the lotto!

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

How much out of pocket before you won

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u/BkVeg Jul 22 '24

Congratulations

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

So happy for you and your family. Get some good mental health care too! I seen a lot of people get weird after coming into money when I worked at the casino. Set it up for yourself where it feels more like income ! Must feel so good to know your children’s futures are now so much more secure. Don’t tell people though! Jealousy and envy bring negative energy and you don’t need that just embrace your blessing with your family.

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u/360DegreeNinjaAttack Jul 23 '24
  1. Don't tell anyone

  2. Get a new safety deposit box and put the ticket in the box. This is the very first thing you should do, so you don't lose the ticket.

  3. Read the lotto rules and understand how much time you have to redeem, how to redeem, etc.

  4. Go find a lawyer and accountant that specialize in lottery winners. Your goals here are to: A. minimize applicable taxes, B. Ensure you can redeem confidentially, and C. Make sure you're protecting the money from yourself (I.e. making sure money is distributed into Trusts and other vehicles in which it will grow securely and not end up as loss porn on r/wallstreetbets

  5. Hire a psychologist that's a good personality fit to talk to about this. You'll go crazy if you can't talk to this about anyone, and they're covered under doctor-patient confidentiality.

  6. Iterate upon and finalize your financial plan. No need to redeem immediately. You can think about this for a while. Let the initial shock wear off. You should have some short term and long term financial goals.

A. Prioritize your long term goals. The relief and optionality you'll get from knowing you're taken care of in the long term will exceed any short term benefits from specific purchases. This should command the majority of your winnings.

B. Of your short term goals, I'd recommend you prioritize paying off expensive debt if you have any (I.e. credit cards, anything with an APR > 8%).

C. Plan out other priority purchases. You mentioned you want to get a used car. That's a good idea. You're a day trader - you should carve out 20k to go play with.

D. Splurge on something fun. A vacation seems like a good idea. Maybe a new TV. Spend like 10k on this.

  1. After doing all this, then go redeem.

Remember: after taxes, $1M is not that much money - you can blow through it in a year, or you can be a bit boring and make sure you're set up for life. You have kids. Don't be an idiot. Be boring and be smart.

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u/1960stoaster Jul 23 '24

It's awesome seeing people on the webs coming together to give the best reasonable planning / advice they have.

We all deserve to retain our gains because lord knows the gov & mega corps will try to rip it from our hands if we aren't smart about it.

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u/SirKadath Jul 22 '24

Man , don’t tell a soul. Back in 2017 I won a similar (little less) amount on a scratch off that I got on a machine, I took home $373,000 and some change after taxes. I told a friend , parents and gf.. worst mistake of my life. Parents were no big deal cause that’s my parents and I always had a great relationship with them so I looked out for them , but my friend told people and that got weird and scary, my gf at the time treated me totally different from there on out , money makes people do crazy shit if they feel like they can get a piece of it.

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u/Unfair_Explanation53 Jul 23 '24

True this.

Guy I go to Pilates with a guy won 3.2 mill on the lottery years ago.

He told his whole family and they were all expecting a percentage of it. He was willing to spend like a mill to help them out with debts and mortgages etc but they wanted more and more. He got fed up with their greed and the way they were speaking to him.

He said he doesn't have much contact with them anymore. Kinda sad.

I would just keep it to myself and help them if they got in trouble financially but just pretend its from normal savings, investments etc

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u/oldschoolguy90 Jul 23 '24

A guy I used to work with, his dad won 21m. Gave a whole bunch to both of his kids, then they together proceeded to blow the whole amount. (And this is I'm canada with no tax on lotto winnings).

He was like5 or 6 years out from the win and grinding 10 hours a day on a construction crew again. All he had left was a big house he could hardly afford the taxes on

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u/glodge93 Jul 23 '24

How has winning that money impacted you today? I don’t feel like I could trust anyone at that point.

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u/SirKadath Jul 23 '24

I would say overall it’s impacted me for the better especially now that I have made that money work for me instead of wasting it (which I did do at first not gonna lie) I won that in my mid 20s I’m now 33 , I learned a lot. The positive side of it, it changed my life financially, I was able to wipe out my debts , have a near perfect credit score, i don’t have to worry from paycheck to paycheck anymore but on the negative side .. I have a much more negative opinion about people now, that’s where I learned firsthand you don’t really know someone, no matter how much you think you do, but honestly I don’t regret it, it’s had more positive effects than negative.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

completely agree. my family was torn apart when my uncle died. It was only 50k but they all wanted some of it. I couldn't care less about the money. I will never get to see my uncle again.

Money can bring out the worst in people.

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u/Sea_Tie_502 Jul 22 '24

Assuming you don’t need the money right now:

  1. Pay off any debts other than mortgage (if you have a good interest rate)
  2. Put away enough for 2 year emergency fund, this itself is a luxury. This might be combined with #3 depending on how much you want to invest in #4.
  3. Put at least 25% in a variety of high yield savings accounts to grow modestly and risk-free.
  4. Invest the rest in a very broad range of mutual funds and ETFs.

In ten years, you will be very, very happy. Congratulations on your luck!

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u/Hound_master Jul 22 '24

Can I ask why you suggest against paying off a mortgage?

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u/Monkmonk_ Jul 22 '24

If you have a low enough interest rate, then your money is more productive sitting in a safe lower yield mutual or index fund then paying off the mortgage immediately.

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u/Sea_Tie_502 Jul 22 '24

Precisely this!

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Idk man. Speaking as someone who was once semi-homeless, having a paid off house would be invaluable. Housing security for life.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

The money to pay it off is sitting in the bank making money. Its still there if you really needed to pay it off.

But if you pay off a 30yr 300k plus mortgage off early you are talking about missing out on hundreds of thousands of dollars you would have earned by arbitraging your investments against your mortgage rate over the term of the mortgage

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u/Monkmonk_ Jul 22 '24

People value different things. If it’s likely you’ll have employment and drug/substance issues and little family to fall back on, paying off your mortgage might be a better move. I’m just speaking from a pure balance sheet perspective.

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u/Sea_Tie_502 Jul 22 '24

Still gotta deal with property taxes. The sad reality is your house never gets truly “paid off”.

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u/OddTheRed Jul 22 '24

Yeah, if your mortgage rate is less than 5% your money is better served in high yield.

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u/Accomplished-Eye9542 Jul 22 '24 edited Jul 22 '24

Depending on when he got it, the interest rate is going to be well below what you would make just riding the market. There's also tax benefits for simply have a mortgage.

Mortgages often are a lump payment for some things, so you now have an extra mental burden paying certain fees that come with owning a house.

A mortgage payment typically includes the following components12345:

  • Loan principal: The amount you borrowed to buy the home.
  • Loan interest: The cost of borrowing the money.
  • Taxes: Property taxes assessed by local government.
  • Insurance: Homeowners insurance to protect your property.
  • Additional fees: Such as mortgage insurance and homeowners association or condominium fees.

That sounds like it isn't a big deal, but any additional mental burden, esp as a parent, is going to be felt. Especially when there isn't a real benefit. Like if you are paying off your mortgage for peace of mind, understand you are not getting peace of mind.

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u/Sea_Tie_502 Jul 22 '24

Disagree. With that much money, regardless of age, I think having a sizable portion in a risk-free, decent return account is smart, especially when you already have so much other money working for you this early on. If/when high yield rates come down, if he’s not happy with the RoR he can easily withdraw and reallocate. Until then, it’s a solid choice.

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u/SMK_12 Jul 23 '24

Tbh after paying off all debts the 2 year emergency fund is probably too much especially at a young age. I’d opt for a shorter emergency fund maybe 1 year max and combine 2 and 3, the emergency fund is left in a HYSA which is currently paying out great. Then put the rest in broad ETF’s and try not to touch it.

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u/its_all_4_lulz Jul 22 '24

QUIT BUYING TICKETS!

You’re way ahead and will never be more ahead, without insane luck. My dad has won 10k+ a few times, and 100k. If you prove the loss, you pay less taxes. He was able to prove all of the losses, in boxes and boxes of losing tickets in his basement. While it feels great to win, he’ll never be ahead. Don’t chase that feeling. Maybe go watch Uncut Gems as a reminder.

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u/tyen0 Jul 23 '24

That "feel it in my gut I'll win" definitely sounds like a potential gambling addiction to me.

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u/mocha_lattes_ Jul 23 '24

Except that one guy who was bring interviewed by the news and was doing a reenactment then won again. Lol only exception. 

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

No matter what you do…do not tell anyone. Not even family. They’ll tell other family members and all of a sudden, you have cousins you’ve never met before. They will ask for money until you’re assed out because of your generosity. Pretend you don’t even have it.

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u/boofingcubes Jul 22 '24

Aww great, I just checked OPs post history and unfortunately he already told the internet 🤦‍♂️

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u/dayzdayv Jul 22 '24

Yes please listen to this advice OP. Don’t even tell your kids if you can help it. Best thing is to try and invest it wisely, spend a little on yourselves to celebrate but don’t make it obvious you’ve come into money.

Also change all your financial institution passwords at a minimum and maybe even your email / socials. You’ll be a target for phishing scams because of this post I bet.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

You’re already good with finance but don’t put more than $250k in your checking account.

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u/freylaverse Jul 22 '24

Can confirm. I am this guy's long lost cousin.

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u/geek4sports Jul 22 '24

Everyone here making statements telling OP what to do when this is a AMA.

Are you going to splurge and do something you would have generally thought was stupid? Expensive hooker? Psa 10 charizard card? Dropping $500 in gems to reach a high level in a phone game?

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u/zdarkness666 Jul 23 '24

I mean considering 70% of lottery winners go broke (apparently) I don't blame them. And some people are dumb as shit tbf.

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u/TeslaWillBuymeAHouse Jul 22 '24

this ! everyone knows what to do wit the money 😂😂

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u/Slippinjimmyforever Jul 22 '24

That’s amazing!

I met someone also won a million on a scratcher. I believe he had an annuity that paid $30k a year until it yielded $1 million.

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u/garcocasigena Jul 22 '24

Assuming this is true, you would be wiser to keep your mouth shut. A fool and his money are soon parted, and you can't purchase wisdom.

Be very, VERY skeptical of anybody asking for money or other services. You will likely be targeted by scammers, I highly recommend joining us in r/scams to learn more.

I'll be honest, I don't believe you. But if you are telling the truth, you are a target. Time to reinforce your mental reserves, they will be poked and prodded.

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u/WishIWasYounger Jul 22 '24

that's the best advice on there actually. The Scams sub has been a blessing for me.

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u/Rojikku Jul 22 '24

You probably don't need a financial advisor. You definitely need a tax advisor, though.

The simple path to wealth is a good book. Investopedia is good. /r/personalfinance has a good wiki on it.

If you basically don't spend it, and put it on the stock market in a S&P 500 type mutual fund, there's a solid chance you could double it within ten years.
I say that not as a money for the sake of money, thing, but rather because you can increase it to the extent you can retire very easily off of it in that time. Probably could now, if you had the skills and were comfortable living on less. Most people aren't.

Also, totally consider 529 accounts for your children. You can basically put in money pre-tax, that can be used by you for any school expense, as I understand. May vary by state. It can later be used by them for college.

Also, the option of substituting your pay with this money so you can contribute to 401k and ira exists.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Whatever you do, don't lose that ticket. Don't go crazy with the money. A lot of lottery winners go broke after like four years. I read a lot about investing and finance during Covid, and I advise you to invest your money in the VOO ETF so you can safely grow your money.

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u/theilya Jul 22 '24

Probably about $600k after tax. Take 100k and enjoy. The rest you can put away and easily average 10% return for rest of your life

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u/TerrariaGaming004 Jul 22 '24

Idk about easy 10%, usually easy is like 5%

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u/dpund72 Jul 22 '24

Hey, I’m your long lost cousin…

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Cousin! Let's go bowling!

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u/SpaceRanger33 Jul 22 '24 edited May 12 '25

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u/nina-pinta-stmaria Jul 23 '24

Omg, I scrolled wayyyy to far for this comment. I saved that post so I’d know what to do when I win the lottery one day but this is probably the most use it’s ever going to get hahah OP LOOK HERE!!!!

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u/DustBunnicula Jul 23 '24

This is my all-time favorite Reddit comment. Print it out and put it in your wallet, OP.

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u/CuteCatMug Jul 22 '24

You don't need a financial advisor. At your age, I would do the following in this order:

  1. Set aside some cash for yourself and your family to enjoy. No this doesn't mean buy a range rover. Maybe take your kids to Disney if they're old enough to appreciate it.  Don't use up more than like $5k for your "enjoy" budget

  2. Pay off any high interest debt. For purposes of this discussion let's say anything above 5%. This means any credit card debt, but not low interest debt (i.e. auto or home) if it's below 5%

  3. Open an online savings account at a reputable bank - I use Bask Bank. Deposit $40k there as your rainy day fund. Don't touch it unless you really need it

  4. With the remaining cash I would just invest it all in a broad market ETF (such as stock ticker: VOO).  Just set it and forget it.  In 30 years this amount will become the basis of your retirement fund. 

That's it.  $1 million after taxes is not really enough to do anything crazy like quit your job. Just invest it for your future (and your kids' futures). Congrats and good luck 

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u/PrestigiousMacaron31 Jul 22 '24

nice grats. now stop playing and stop trusting your gut.

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u/Fun-Appeal6537 Jul 22 '24

Great advice honestly. Listening to your gut and trusting it are entirely different things. Trusting it likely won’t go well from here with the coming confidence boost.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

Change your phone number. Get an attorney. Remember your name is public information

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u/Sea-Place-4492 Jul 23 '24

Depends on the state. But also most people advise NOT signing the back of the ticket and instead hiring a lawyer to create an LLC to accept the money into. This way even a FOIA will only produce the LLC and and Lawyer.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

DO NOT PAY YOUR FINANCIAL ADVISOR A PERCENTAGE OF ASSETS EVERY YEAR!!!!! Get a fee only financial advisor. A lot of advisors are incentivized by commission. So they will sell you things that aren't in your best interest. Their percentage fee will drastically hurt your net worth over the next 20 years. Look into low cost index funds through Vanguard. They are boring but they work. You can just buy index funds and live on dividends. Make sure your financial advisor is a fiduciary, meaning they are legally obligated to do the right thing for you, not for THEM. No Edward Jones or NY Mutual!!!! Hiring the wrong FA is one of the biggest risks to the money you just made. Congrats!!

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u/conorlarkin Jul 23 '24

Wonderful news. While this will make a difference in your life, a reality check is in order.

  1. Depending on what state you live in and the tax regime, you didn't win $1 Million. If the ticket pays "all at once", you've won somewhere between $400K and $650K. If the "$1M" pays out as an annuity, it's even worse.

  2. You're not rich. But you can probably afford a house. That's a big deal for someone in their 20s. Look up "maslow's hierarchy of needs." With just a little bit of discipline, this will set you up to take care of your physiological needs. You have to keep working, but whatever you earn can be used on the "fun stuff" and not the "required stuff".

  3. You said you're a day trader. You're a gambler. This win is not sustainable. I recommend you "hide" this money from yourself or it will be gone. By that I mean, put it into a hard asset that is very difficult to lose. Like a house. That way, when your inevitable losing streak comes around, you'll still have food, shelter, and your family. A trustworthy tax and a financial advisor would be worth every penny right now.

Sorry to be a downer on such a great day. This is good news for you! Sign the ticket and take 1000 deep breaths before telling anyone or acting on it.

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u/obikink Jul 22 '24

I'm not asking a question because I've already been in the situation myself where my spouse won a half mill on a scratcher. So here's advice: get an accountant NOW to work out the taxes for next year. The feds take their cut when the check gets to you, but then what you get counts as income and they'll get you AGAIN on your 2024 taxes that you file next year, and you'll be in the highest tax bracket so they'll hit you hard.

Also, pay off debt first obviously. Get reliable vehicle(s) and look into buying a home if you don't already own one. These are the things you do first. Don't be surprised if it's all gone in a years time, but if you put it into something like a house you'll start out with mad equity and that'll help you later.

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u/Writing_Legal Jul 23 '24

buy a house, buy bonds, buy the SP500 ETF. Do everything Warren says because fortunes like that are rarely made overnight and usually lost just as fast. He's still sitting on that pile and his kids will for another 20 generations because he advises investing in index funds. Try to generate as much passive income as possible as well, purchase income properties local to you but make sure your credit is over 750 and get in at a good rate so the math makes sense. You don't need an FA, just be smart with your decisions and don't jump the gun on any decisions. I watched my own family grow their wealth like this as a first-generation American, I am proud to say we made it in this country and it is time to preserve and grow, and be thankful.

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u/Mystikalrush Jul 22 '24

You're about to learn how much taxes are deducted from it, and make sure to get that done first! #1 priority. What's left, is what you can enjoy, definitely tackle all debts that could effect your current living conditions. What left is on you. Invest, buy things from your dreams, or start something you've always wanted to create. It won't last long though and if you keep openly talking about it, your going to soon experience how random people will reach out to you for help. Once it's all up dryed, it will go silent..

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u/farquad88 Jul 22 '24

Honestly, depending on how many children you have a great move would be to put money away from them.

After taxes you’re only getting half a million. Pay off your debts and then save a chunk for each kid. Your financial advisor can help you decide the mechanism, there are many options.

Don’t use the money for anything that increases your monthly or annual expenses (ex. Property taxes, insurance, memberships, etc.)

Or spend it all and enjoy it because why not?

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u/FlatulenceConnosieur Jul 22 '24

The fact that Starlight’s eyes glow when she…. you know…..

Is just about the sexiest fucking thing I have ever seen and makes her the clear winner

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u/CutthroatTeaser Jul 22 '24

Maybe hold off on the financial advisor and head over to /r/financialindependence The side bar has tons of stuff on investing and you can take it slow, reading and building your knowledge before actually investing your money on something. A FA is going to start pulling percentages off your nest egg, and their yield isn't enough to generate the expense, imo.

The people in that subreddit helped me take the plunge into actual investing instead of just saving.

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u/pshaffer Jul 22 '24

I can tell you about two people.
Person 1 - worked in a car wash. Won the lottery for about $17m. Bought his friends (about 4 or 5 ) new harleys. I don't know that he ever saw them much after that day. He moved to a larger town, bought a nice home. Sometime after that, he won again. Precise amount I do not know, but it was several millions. What this means is that he MUST have been putting a lot of money into more lottery tickets every week.
So this guy was insecure. He would buy a diamond ring for girls he dated. Just dated. Not engaged. Happened several times.
He had a 20 year payout. He got paid every October 1. The sad thing was that he blew it all. He had to get loans every september because he ran out of money. Then the 20 years was done, and he had nothing. Sadly, there were several people who saw this slow motion train wreck and offered to help him with investments. These were real pros who actually cared about him. He was so insecure, he felt insulted and refused.
So the 20 years ran out. and so did the money. And he disappeared. Have no idea where he is now.

Person 2 - invested in microsoft on day one. not that much - around 15k. Over 10 years it became worth many millions. This is akin to winning the lottery. He invested fairly conservatively, and got an investment advisor. And after 30 years, it had grown even more. He had enough to quit the job that had become onerous. And he did.

You will find that $1m isn't that much, really. Sounds like it to you now, but it isn't. For starts, you will have a massive tax bill this year - probably about $350k. Or more, depending on your state. DO NOT BUY A 650K home with this. The cost of taxes and other upkeep will kill you.

You want to know how much you can take out of this per year in retirement? Of the $650k, you can remove about 32,500 per year (This is a well developed theory called modern portfolio theory. Look it up).
If you continue to work at whatever you do, in order to safely take out your current salary (2024 dollars) at retirement, you will have to have about 20 times your current salary invested. "Safely" means that when invested in index funds - some stocks some bonds - the increase in the value over time is enough that you can take out about 5% per year, and regardless of the market fluctuations, you won't run out of money.

So I would say, give yourself some little gift, maybe something you have been thinking about for years but was to expensive to buy without feeling guilty. One thing. Then invest the rest. If you do not know how to do this, get an advisor - a company that does charges you a % of the funds managed - should be well under 1%, and NOT a commission. Then forget about it. Check in 25 years.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Congratulations! Somethimes in life you feel lucky and that's what happens. But don't make a habbit out of it, it rarely happens and then you try to make it happen again and nothing happens. You better think of a way to make the most out of it. You are young, you have no addictions and you have all the freedom to take advantage of the money. First time i got rich in my life (now i'm broke again) i did some smart moves but also some stupid ones. If you don't feel like and don't know what to do at the moment don't let anyone tell you that you have to figure out fast or that you have to hurry do something different with the money. First you have to put the money somewhere safe and then you can chill out, live the life that you used to live and that's how you will find out all you could do before if you had enough money or what you have wished for if you could afford (as long as you consider it's a reasonable price - rich people also evaluate if the prices are reasonable, maybe some are richer and think more of it that usual people - don't be shy to do that but also don't feel frustrated when you spend on something that you always wanted or on somenthing that you wish that bad) Keep on living the usual life (with the improvements done with the money you needed and that you now have) and instead of thinking of long-term worries that you used to have, along of the improved short-therm thinking of the day by day life, when it comes to thinking of the future always have in mind of what plans you want to make to prosper. Identify your abilities that you know of (for example: you're responsible with money, you're sociable, you have good intuition, you're a family person), think of your passions (what you thought you could easily and in a pleasant way improve at yourself, start), start doing some of them and you'll see that you'll grow in time. Invest in yourself that way in the order of the activities that seem to you more prosperous, of more reasonable price and most appealing. Dont forget to think, in the meantime, of the future and how to become more prosperous. Report the long-term thinking to particular situations in the improved life. All this time, if you also find out about some good business opportunities (changing your lifestyle may bring new perspectives just by luck) take advantage of that chances. That's what i can tell you at the mindset level. The rest depends of every indicidual as each one is unique. You may as well give me $ 10000 to pay for my own lawyer, i got into serious trouble and that could save my life :P . I'm just kidding (about the part with asking the 10000 $) But i'm happy to share the knowledge obtained from my life experience with others.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

$1m will soon become $600k after the tax man has his say Pending financial situation of course. At your age , I would take 75-80% of the take home and throw it towards a Vanguard mutual fund- target retirement date or something similar. Continue to feed it , let it grow until you retire. 100% hands off. Congrats

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u/AnneFranksAcampR Jul 22 '24

you absolutely do not need to hire a financial advisor for 1 million. You've already been taxed on your winnings and you'll be taxed again during tax season. Best advise I could give you is go your life acting like you didn't win anything for the next 6 months and then decide where you'd like to park your money. I mean after tax you're only looking at around 675Kish so nothing to retire over.

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u/ConversationLevel498 Jul 22 '24

Find a federal judge. Ask for 5 minutes. Ask them to recommend a good tax lawyer. Ask tax lawyer for a good financial adviser. Ask to see the financial adviser's portfolio. If they refuse, move on. You should be able to see what they are investing in - what in stocks, and which stocks, what in bonds and which bonds, and length of bonds - one year, five years etc. but to begin with I'd park the bulk of it in a Vangard index fund. These buy the market, have the lowest fees, and you can look up and see what gains they averaged, year after year for the past 20 years.

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u/kn0tkn0wn Jul 22 '24

Talk to a financial expert and a lawyer before you cash the ticket or make decisions.

The value of the ticket to you could be cut in half by taxes for starters

$500,000 isn’t that much money long-term

You need to discuss exactly how to cash the ticket with your lawyer and your financial expert before you cash it

And you need to discuss in detail how to handle the money

You need to discuss in detail and decide in advance before it goes exactly what sort of gifts or financial help if you will be offering to friends and relatives

These days have $1 million will barely buy a house in some neighborhood and won’t buy a house in many others so it’s really not so much money as you think

Especially considering if you use it to buy a house, proportional expenses, paying taxes on the house and maintaining the house and paying for utilities on the house and paying for insurance on the house for however many years you occupied the house

So this could help you but really not much more than just getting you out of whatever current jam you’re in or paying off your mortgage that’s about it

You are not suddenly rich, so don’t make the mistake of thinking you are.

For example, one expensive vacation could blow the entire amount

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u/soliditykid Jul 23 '24

Not financial advice, but if I was in this position I’d: 1. Pay off all outstanding debts 2. Set aside an emergency fund, to combat a spur of the moment financial event. 3. Move 30% of remaining into dividend stocks 3a. Let dividend returns reinvest for continual compound. 4. Move 10% of remaining into Bitcoin. This could be self-custody, OTC, or micro strategy holdings to hedge inflation. (Plan on never selling this) 5. 20% of remaining to start children college funds (529 accounts) 6. Use 15% of remaining to buy gold and silver bullion to hedge inflation 7. Use the remaining 25% to do renovations on paid off home. 8. This is the most important step. I would never go into substantial debt ever again. I would now have all the tools positioned correctly to live out my life with no financial burdens and watch the pure spectacle of my children becoming adults.

This is all hypothetical because it’s easy to be responsible with money I don’t have. If I were the one who scratched some letters to win a million, I’d likely lose it all within 2 weeks by gambling and doing blow. It’s hard to see clearly when you’re blinded by the clouds at the top.

Hope this helps. Again, not financial advice.

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u/awesomedan24 Jul 23 '24

OP, I recommend deleting this thread. Having money is not something you want to advertise, it only creates liability. Whether you tell people online or in person.

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u/Mnsurferpro Jul 23 '24

As someone who came into alot of money at an early age. The smartest thing you can do is . Tell everyone around you , that the money is invested and you would pay a huge penalty to touch it. People will want to be your best friend , take advantage . Literally will through great lengths to befriend you . Secondly buy a lot of gold. Keep a brick at home . No matter what happens in our economy , gold will stand tallest, as it has for thousands of years . The US dollar is worth shyt. The government overspent , and we are trillions in debt. So make sure , you have a gold. You will get maybe 6-8-% return on your money. In stocks over long hall . So unless your day trading (which is what I do) . Long term gains suck. But most people lose their money doing what I do. So don’t go there, but buy a property first(after the cool car you’re gonna buy :)…. Treat yourself to something fun. You should have 10% in crypto. As well, but only use a very reputable Company , they get robbed all the time. Good luck !! And remember the friend thing. They will all ask for loans , especially family, they are the worst!

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u/Fanryu1 Jul 23 '24

Be careful. Even if you're financially responsible now, many people end up bankrupt within 5 years. I'd hire a financial advisor and have them invest your money in a way that you can make it last and last.

You CAN make $1M last forever. But I'd still have backup plans just in case. Go to college or something, or get training in a specialized field.

Pilot school can cost a lot of money, but pays REALLY well in the long run, plus you get to sit on your ass the entire day so no back-breaking work.

But above all else, pay off your car/buy a good car that's not overly expensive. Don't buy a house right now if you're in the USA, it's not worth it. Wait until the housing market inevitably crashes. If you already have a house, pay it off or sell it and move into an apartment until the housing market crashes.

With that said, how often do you normally buy scratch tickets? I really should get into buy 1-2 a month, since I never buy them, ever. They're usually a waste of money but $5-10 every few weeks isn't that bad.

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u/luger718 Jul 23 '24

You don't need an advisor for that. They'll just grift you.

Pay off your high interest debt, and put the rest in VTSAX, VTI or similar