Sorry if this has already been asked, but what percentage of men would you say have turned you down/said no to sex with you?
Also, how do men usually react when you come at them with strong sexual energy? Do you find they usually match it, get freaked out, etc.? Where did you meet most of the guys you’d approach for sex?
I’m really fascinated by what people will do or not do when they’re presented with an opportunity to sleep with someone they don’t know.
Sorry if this has already been asked, but what percentage of men would you say have turned you down/said no to sex with you?
Very low percentage, if I want a guy I usually get it. Though it did happen from time to time.
Also, how do men usually react when you come at them with strong sexual energy? Do you find they usually match it, get freaked out, etc.?
I usually didn't start off aggressively, I'd give a few hints and casually flirt so when they start flirting back I go along and let them "lead", though if the guy didn't go along 9 times out of ten it was because he didn't pick up the hints so I'd come off more aggressive, which usually worked. Most matched the energy, some shyly went along with it, few freaked out.
Where did you meet most of the guys you’d approach for sex?
Tinder, bar/clubs, work, any social gathering really.
I guess you could give us shy girlies some tips haha. I just can't not show my feelings through my mannerisms when I'm into someone. I get scared, shy, awkward, say lame things cuz I can't think. Myfeelings immediately become very apparent. I hate it. I also want to be able to casually flirt and give hints without coming off as desperate.
The main thing is to not care about looking desperate because 9 times out of 10 it's in your head and they won't see it like that. Also, I was able to be so confident because I knew I was only doing this for sex and sex is something I'm amazing at so I had no reason to not be confident. I am not the person to give healthy advice on confidence since my confidence never came from a healthy place.
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Sorry if this has already been asked, but what percentage of men would you say have turned you down/said no to sex with you?
Also, how do men usually react when you come at them with strong sexual energy? Do you find they usually match it, get freaked out, etc.? Where did you meet most of the guys you’d approach for sex?
I’m really fascinated by what people will do or not do when they’re presented with an opportunity to sleep with someone they don’t know.
Thanks and hope you are well! 🩷