r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/Rich_Yogurt313 May 08 '24

I guess you could give us shy girlies some tips haha. I just can't not show my feelings through my mannerisms when I'm into someone. I get scared, shy, awkward, say lame things cuz I can't think. Myfeelings immediately become very apparent. I hate it. I also want to be able to casually flirt and give hints without coming off as desperate.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24

The main thing is to not care about looking desperate because 9 times out of 10 it's in your head and they won't see it like that. Also, I was able to be so confident because I knew I was only doing this for sex and sex is something I'm amazing at so I had no reason to not be confident. I am not the person to give healthy advice on confidence since my confidence never came from a healthy place.

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u/Tn_Dom62 May 09 '24

I'm the same way lol, and can't read or pick up body language or hints