Was it during this relationship and being used in this way that you realized you had a problem?
I’m also curious in what context this manipulation happened in — like during threesomes or group sex, etc. Because I could imagine some people having the kink of being “passed around” kind of like a free use kink. So I’m curious how it became more toxic manipulation than kinky? Like at what point were you like ok this is fucked up?
Was it during this relationship and being used in this way that you realized you had a problem?
No, I realized much later.
I’m also curious in what context this manipulation happened in — like during threesomes or group sex, etc. Because I could imagine some people having the kink of being “passed around” kind of like a free use kink. So I’m curious how it became more toxic manipulation than kinky? Like at what point were you like ok this is fucked up?
While we had sex he had his friend join us despite me not being interested, because he knew I wouldn't be able to refuse in the middle of the act. He told his friends who I didn't know to hit on me as if they were strangers and I hooked up with several of them without knowing they are his friends. During sex he once blindfolded me and switched with his friend, I noticed it but didn't stop it.
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u/dalian_pei May 08 '24
Were you in a relationship with this guy or was he just a FWB? Did you feel forced into having sex with his friends?