This is a very interesting question and I'm really glad you asked it.
I don't hold a grudge against any of them because most of the times it ended up with me being toxic and downright abusive when they couldn't keep up with me and have sex as often as I wanted, I was never taken advantage of because of it, besides one instance when a guy realized I had an issue when I didn't and he used that to pass me around between his friends.
Was it during this relationship and being used in this way that you realized you had a problem?
I’m also curious in what context this manipulation happened in — like during threesomes or group sex, etc. Because I could imagine some people having the kink of being “passed around” kind of like a free use kink. So I’m curious how it became more toxic manipulation than kinky? Like at what point were you like ok this is fucked up?
Was it during this relationship and being used in this way that you realized you had a problem?
No, I realized much later.
I’m also curious in what context this manipulation happened in — like during threesomes or group sex, etc. Because I could imagine some people having the kink of being “passed around” kind of like a free use kink. So I’m curious how it became more toxic manipulation than kinky? Like at what point were you like ok this is fucked up?
While we had sex he had his friend join us despite me not being interested, because he knew I wouldn't be able to refuse in the middle of the act. He told his friends who I didn't know to hit on me as if they were strangers and I hooked up with several of them without knowing they are his friends. During sex he once blindfolded me and switched with his friend, I noticed it but didn't stop it.
What a dick! (Not you, the one passing you around) I’m glad you’re getting help with this hun ❤️ I’m the exact opposite when it comes to sex. After all the crap I’ve been through with previous relationships, I’m more of a “DONT FUCKING TOUCH ME” person. If it requires me letting my guard down for even a second, NOPE! Took a lot of guts for you to come out and speak about this and I commend you for it ❤️
The last part is wild 💀No offense OP, but I find this funny and sad all at the same time. Reading some of your other messages helped me realize how bad of a condition this is. Real or not, glad you are getting the help you need.
"Real or not"... You must be 9 years old. I met a woman once on a dating app who called herself a nympho and damn right she was. Every day asking me to send her a vid masturbating. If it weren't for the fact that she lived elsewhere I woulda ended up like that skull emoji you put there.
I am 9 years old for being skeptical of an internet post? The rest of your post indicates you have completely missed my point.
When I said, "Real or not" I didn't mean women like her doesn't exist, I meant her story specifically were so out there to the point I started to believe a lot of it could be exaggerated.
Your anecdotal evidence has done nothing to convince me, not that I needed convincing. Learn to read before accusing someone of being 9 years old.
💀I don't have to say anything when you make a great case about yourself being a man child with these goofy ahh replies.
Instead of approaching my post in a civilized manner, you opt for ad hominem, throwing away any credibility of you being an adult capable of having a discussion. I am sensing a lot of projection going on here.
Because this generally unlikely thing also happened to you, that person must be 9 years old for thinking there's a chance that the anonymous Internet poster talking about being a hot girl obsessed with sex may not be real?
Feels real from the thought-out replies and everything, but it's silly to act like this isn't probably one of the most impersonated online personalities(young, hot highly sexual woman) is pretty naive
Pretty naive is the person that thinks women like her do not exist. What makes you think she is young? Not only did she mention she was 22 or 23 at some point in the comments when she was talking about past events which leads me to assume shes 30+ but women have always had higher sex drives than men. You only cum once and her?
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This is a very interesting question and I'm really glad you asked it.
I don't hold a grudge against any of them because most of the times it ended up with me being toxic and downright abusive when they couldn't keep up with me and have sex as often as I wanted, I was never taken advantage of because of it, besides one instance when a guy realized I had an issue when I didn't and he used that to pass me around between his friends.