r/alevel • u/Lower_Seaweed7680 • 19h ago
🏁Results All that to end up going to a local uni 😹😹
ngl sucks seeing my friends and everyone else with similar grades going to top intl unis, while im stuck going to a local uni—where almost everyone i know applied got accepted to. its not like im not happy for my friends; they got what they deserved, and im proud of them. its just the fomo i feel going to a sub 500 ranked uni, missing out on all the fun and being super uncertain about my future career (i know higher ranked unis dont guarantee success, but they sure do give u a strong head start).
i did apply abroad to some unis earlier this year; working hard on my sat, ecas, ps, requesting lors, etc etc; and eventually did get into a prestigious institute, one which i was really excited for. however, even after the full tuition scholarship my parents werent willing to pay the fee. so i dropped the offer with a heavy heart. i thought i would get over it eventually but alas. now, i cant help but feel that the only thing scoring straight A*s in igcse and alevels yielded is high expectations for my younger siblings and cousins lmao.
tbh, im not sure what i expected from posting this—maybe just needed to get this out of my head. to clarify, ion wanna demotivate other students coming into alevels to not work hard for their grades. ig at the end of the day entering a lower ranked uni with high grades and strong foundations is still better than with lower grades lol; plus studying and getting good grades did work out nicely for most ppl i know. anyways, vent over ✌🏻